"This time when I'm tied down... I have control." For switch Alex, kink was the answer to reclaiming his body after a traumatic rape. In this raw and powerful interview, he talks about the healing power of consensual control, the thrill of deep submission with a trusted Dom, and why he loves both topping and bottoming.
Psychology Professor Hermes Solenzol explains that healthy BDSM hinges on Safe, Sane, and Consensual (SSC) practices like negotiation, limits, and safewords. He warns against abusers who undermine these, exploiting BDSM for control through dishonesty, isolation, and manipulation. His advice: educate yourself, engage with the community, and prioritize consent to avoid harmful dynamics.
Let's reclaim "sadist"! Psychology Professor Hermes Solenzol explains that in BDSM, it's not about cruelty, but erotic pain—a specific, warming sensation in zones like the butt or thighs. Pain also serves in power exchange and to induce altered states like sub-space, fostering self-discovery beyond pseudoscientific myths.
Psychology Professor Hermes Solenzol offers a fresh take on D/s, linking it to shame and pride, core evolutionary emotions. He argues D/s provides an escape from society's relentless pursuit of success. Submissives find liberation by embracing low status, while Dominants gain power effortlessly, fostering a unique, profound release from internalized pressures and enhancing pleasure.
He’s a horny piggy pup who loves being locked in chastity. He’s a rubber gimp with a goal of getting fisted. Meet Pup Koa. We sit down with the sexy, bratty San Francisco pup to chat about his kink journey, from his first hood to his ever-growing collection of big toys. Get ready to meet your new favorite pup.
Professor Hermes Solenzol outlines seven elements of a healthy, evolving D/s dynamic, far beyond simple orders. He defines: obedience, surrender (physical and mental openness), service (proactive pleasing), discipline (training for submission), punishment (healing catharsis), demeanor (expressive conduct), and mind-fucking (mind games for deep sub-space). This journey, built on trust and mutual effort, fosters profound personal transformation for both Dominant and submissive.
Psychology Professor Hermes Solenzol reveals that panic attacks are common in BDSM scenes, often appearing as sudden, speechless terror. Tops must immediately stop play, remove restraints, and calmly reassure the submissive. These intense reactions, sometimes triggered by past trauma or loss of control, are potent mind alterations, and handling them correctly is crucial for safety and potential healing.
Professor Hermes Solenzol clarifies that spanking does produce pain, not just sensation, despite popular belief, as different nerve fibers transmit each. He explains "stingy" (sharp, warm, skin-deep) versus "thuddy" (dull, deep, muscular) pain, detailing the neurobiology of why spanking feels hot (TRPV1 receptors) and causes redness (inflammation from nerve signals). The pleasure, even orgasm, stems from complex brain pathways involving excitement and motivation.
Ever wondered what “sub-space” really is? It’s more than just an endorphin rush. Neuroscientist and BDSM practitioner Prof. Hermes Solenzol breaks down the real science behind our altered states. Learn the difference between an endorphin high and a noradrenaline trip, and what’s actually happening in your brain during a scene. Kink just got smarter.
What's the hottest part of any BDSM scene? The surrender of consent. This essential guide explores the bedrock of our play, from negotiating limits before the fun begins to the absolute power of a safeword. Learn why enthusiastic consent is the ultimate offering a sub can make, and how that trust creates mind-blowing, unforgettable experiences.
(1 Video / 15 Pics) MasterMarc delves into petplay from a Master's unique perspective, revealing how this "bridge fetish" broke down old kink caste systems. While he doesn't personally engage in the playfulness of petplay, he emphasizes its role in fostering pack hierarchies among slaves. He shares his "kinky kennel" rules, from slaves on the floor to bowl feeding and even "super-food" breakfasts, all designed to reinforce their submissive role.
(6 pics / 5 short vids) Dive into Mark's (18) world of spanking! From playful taps to intense sessions – this guide reveals his favorite positions, tools, and personal anecdotes. Discover why spanking is more than just pain and how to make this thrilling game safe and consensual. Ready to explore your bottom?
Can fisting wreck your hole? Only if you play it wrong. Fisting maestro Skydevil drops the ultimate wisdom for all tops: THERE IS NOTHING MORE DOMINANT THAN THE BOTTOM'S ASS. The key is to play with the booty, not against it. It's a game of trust, relaxation, and sensual pleasure—not a battle you’re supposed to win.
Want to be a good fister? The secret isn't a big hand; it's big patience. Guest tutor Skydevil shares the golden rule: "Always play with the booty, not against it." If the hole pushes back, you yield. It's a slow, lubricated dance of trust where the goal isn't just getting in, but fulfilling your partner's deepest desires.
"This time when I'm tied down... I have control." For switch Alex, kink was the answer to reclaiming his body after a traumatic rape. In this raw and powerful interview, he talks about the healing power of consensual control, the thrill of deep submission with a trusted Dom, and why he loves both topping and bottoming.
Psychology Professor Hermes Solenzol explains that healthy BDSM hinges on Safe, Sane, and Consensual (SSC) practices like negotiation, limits, and safewords. He warns against abusers who undermine these, exploiting BDSM for control through dishonesty, isolation, and manipulation. His advice: educate yourself, engage with the community, and prioritize consent to avoid harmful dynamics.
