To shave or not to shave? That is the kinky question! We’re dissecting the hairy debate, from smooth submission to wild, masculine bushes. Join Set Slave, Scol, Axel Abysse, Chirenon, Yoshi Kawasaki, DomTop, Doofer, Sebastian Kane, Slave Pu, and Jordan Roberts as they reveal why pubic hair (or lack thereof) sparks desire, humiliation, and primal urges. Get ready to feel exposed!
Get ready, kinksters, because we’re plunging into one of the fiercest debates in our kinky world: pubic hair! Smooth as a baby’s bottom, or a wild, hairy beast? For some, shaven is surrender; for others, hair is the ultimate symbol of raw manliness. Today, we’re dissecting this hairy topic with a panel of hot subs, versatile tops, and even a trans man, revealing why every inch of fuzz (or lack thereof) ignites profound desires.
The Smooth Truth: Vulnerability & Youth
I confess, I have a profound love for smooth boys. There’s something exquisitely naked and utterly vulnerable about a body stripped bare of every hair. For me, body hair is a natural shield, and its elimination renders a slave even more exposed, more utterly delivered to his Master. I often declare that body hair is the exclusive privilege of Tops, the real men, while slaves and pussyboys should remain flawlessly smooth. But I know this is just my delicious preference, and cultural currents twist opinions wildly. You’ll find a sea of clean-shaven bottoms in North America and Central Europe, while most boys in Asia proudly rock their pubic hair.
Set Slave (Thailand): In Asia, body hair is a symbol of manliness and adulthood. People wouldn’t see you as a real man if they saw you naked and shaven. And as Asians aren’t as hairy as Europeans and Americans, it is not so dominant. Myself, I love to be shaven. It looks cleaner! But of course, hairy bottoms can also be attractive.
MasterMarc: Is body hair truly the ultimate symbol of masculinity? I’m not into overly feminine boys, but even a masculine slave makes me purr when I call him “pussyboy.” But are the pubes really that crucial for masculinity? I think we need to ask a young, kinky female-to-male transgender man, a gay man who still hasn’t acquired a dick, for his raw, unfiltered take. He’s surely wrestled with the very essence of masculinity.
Scol (Italy): I’ve never considered pubic hair as a symbol of masculinity. I have to say that I don’t really like pubic hair. Hair often irritates and scratches your skin having sex and it’s very upsetting, not to mention those that end in the mouth if you have oral sex.
MasterMarc: That’s a brutally functional answer, and an experience, I’m sure, everyone can relate to. Are there other compelling reasons why some men crave flawlessly smooth bottoms? Perhaps the porn actor Axel Abysse can shed some light on this silky preference.
Axel Abysse (France/Japan): I don’t make distinctions between Tops and bottoms as a type of guys. I play mostly versatile anyway, so I love smooth guys but I like also some hairy guys. I don’t have any idea why I prefer it smooth.
MasterMarc: Axel, that wasn’t exactly helpful! Let me turn to Chirenon, whose Tumblr blog is a testament to his singular love for perfectly shaven bottom boys.
Chirenon (Canada): I have an intrinsic natural attraction for guys who are perfectly smooth. There is nowhere on a guy’s body that I find more sexy than the smooth, indented dimple that can be exposed when their pubic hair is shaved clean. If I find a guy attractive, seeing him completely smooth will elevate that attraction for me by a factor of 5 or 10; and guys I otherwise wouldn’t look twice at can be of interest to me if they are smooth.
There are a number of intellectual or aesthetic reasons for preferring smooth skin to hair-covered hide. Smooth skin represents health and youth; thus more people are attracted to tight skin than old, wrinkled skin. Shaving denotes cleanliness; hairy hide looks unkempt and dirty. Shaved body hair since the time of Alexander the Great has denoted civilization; hair-covered bodies are barbarous or caveman-like.
The Hairy Truth: Masculinity & Musk
Beyond the debate of masculinity, why do others passionately embrace pubic hair? I know the porn actor Yoshi Kawasaki wouldn’t dream of shaving, so I must ask him.
Yoshi Kawasaki (Japan/Switzerland): I prefer guys with pubic hair. It’s because I like hair on men’s body in general as it makes the smell much stronger. I love smells! In Japan it is uncommon to shave pubic hair. Some people do it as one fetish. Having no pubic hair makes their entire look more child like. But of course a bit of trimming never hurt anybody.
MasterMarc: “Child-like?” I sincerely hope that’s a singular opinion, as I certainly don’t see myself as a wannabe pedophile.
DomTop (England): I prefer guys to be natural, so if they are naturally smooth or naturally hairy either is fine, if you’re really hairy it’s nice to have it maintained and neat, but I’m not a fan of the artificial smooth all over look generally. I think there’s something slightly sinister about trying to mimic a pre-pubescent boy by removing all your genital hair, and I’m a fan of armpits so shaved pits I really don’t get.
MasterMarc: Uff, again… Of course, that can be an aspect, but it’s certainly not why I prefer smooth guys. I believe the body type and face are far more critical in determining if a boy looks younger or older. Perhaps we should consult Doofer, a pup and sissyboy, on why he embraces the total shave. I know he loves to be completely bare.
Doofer (England/Switzerland): I love to be shaven or waxed from the neck down, including my legs, pubes and butt. There’s the look of it, I’d say it’s more towards the mainstream idea of beauty – youth and cleanliness. It certainly looks messy and unkempt when it’s not at least trimmed (the same goes for a beard or any other hair really). There’s the feminisation and youth aspect, speaking as a bottom. Plus there’s a slight submissiveness in the act itself; hair is manly and so shaving it off is somewhat subservient. Then of course, no one likes hair in their mouth, when either giving blowjobs or rimming.
The Porn Perspective: Cleanliness vs. Authenticity
Now I’m truly curious how Sebastian Kane, the mastermind behind the porn label Boynapped, weighs in on this hairy debate.
Sebastian Kane (England/Spain): I’m a fan of smooth boys but I don’t care whether that’s naturally smooth or shaved in fact both have their good points – naturally smooth boys have a better touch but I’m a fan of shaving and don’t mind starting any kink scene with shaving. Totally smooth has to be the best, armpit hair shaved, pubic hair shaved and shaved bottom makes a boy perfect. Shaving can be a sensual experience if time is taken with lots of breaks to massage the boys sensitive areas, by the time a boy is totally shaved/smooth, I like to leave him erect, aroused and feeling edgy.
MasterMarc: Ahh, I see he’s a true connoisseur. And how does this play out in the cutthroat porn business? What do you believe your Boynapped viewers truly prefer?
Sebastian Kane (England/Spain): It’s not easy to pull together a really good understanding of our members’ viewpoints and I prefer not to bother them with surveys and questionnaires so I stick with my core principle, I create what I like and believe that this comes across to those that share my likes.
MasterMarc: Okay, I see tastes diverge wildly, so even the porn industry offers no universal standard for pubic hair. What about slave boys? What does Pu, a Chinese slave living in Italy, think about this hairy dilemma?
Slave Pu (China/Italy): Slave boys should be smooth. It makes boys look even more submissive and of course it is more hygienic. Hairs are difficult to wash and it can have an odd smell. It makes it also difficult to have fun if your mouth is full of hair and some are resting between your teeth. I would say it is even better if Tops are clean-shaven too!
MasterMarc: Really? No, I absolutely don’t think so! As I told you at the beginning, Tops should have some pubes, but they should be cropped. Wild bushes are truly ugly, and as several guys have mentioned, they look dirty. Perhaps some people like that, but I certainly don’t. What’s your take on the pubes of Tops, Jordan?
Jordan Roberts (England): I wouldn’t say shaven necessarily, just trimmed, I like a bit of hair just not too much. I prefer a guy to look clean and tidy then treat me really dirty I guess! If people are topping it is nicer if there aren’t too much hair. Even more important if you’re doing porn as people want to see the penetration and not just bushes.
MasterMarc: I’m thrilled, Jordan, that you see it exactly as I do. And of course, you’re right: “dirty action” doesn’t mean guys have to be unkempt.
Are you already reaching for your razor, or clutching your inner wild man? Some will love it, others not. Everyone holds their own truth about shaven, cropped, or wild pubic hair. It’s the glorious, defining characteristic of the fetish and SM world: there are no standards. The only absolute condition is consensual play, where every participant defines their own limits and desires.
By the way, feel free to unleash your own comments below. We’re dying to know: how do you like it?
