The click of the cage is the first reminder: he doesn’t live for himself, but for His Master. In Part Two of our TPE deep-dive, MGP reveals the reality of life under a 24/7 protocol. From financial surrender to the ‘theater’ of the outside world: discover why total submission isn’t a prison, but the ultimate source of strength.
In Part One, “Why I Traded My Freedom for the Master’s Chain,” Master Gabber’s Property (MGP) shared why he left his life in Italy behind to become the slave of Master Gabber. He spoke of a deep yearning for purpose and how freedom often only truly begins where the burden of choice ends. But what does it actually look like when philosophical “structure” becomes a living, breathing reality?
For MGP, structure is no longer a vague concept. It is measurable, tangible, and often loud. It manifests as a 24/7 protocol that leaves no room for gray areas. In this second installment, we dive deep into the lived reality of TPE (Total Power Exchange).
MasterMarc: Matteo, in our first conversation, we talked a lot about your desire for structure. You said that “normal” life often left you feeling empty. Today, we want to talk about how Master Gabber turned that desire into reality. Your day doesn’t usually start with a ray of sunshine or a gentle alarm. Tell us about that first, all-deciding sound in the morning.
MGP: It’s the metallic click. The sound of Master Gabber opening the key safe from the bedroom using His phone – the safe containing the key to the cage where this slave lies. At that moment, the structure becomes physical. This slave doesn’t just “wake up”; this property is released into his role for the day. The first impulse isn’t to reach for a phone like most of you; it’s for this slave, on His command, to free himself from the cage and go down to the bedroom, where this boy kneels naked beside His bed. That click is the first reminder that this boy is a slave and lives not for himself, but only for His Master.
MasterMarc: So, this boy sleeps “species-appropriate” in a cage. Is that the standard for you two? Many people associate a cage with something negative – imprisonment, humiliation, or the life of a mistreated animal. What does the cage mean to you? Is it a prison or more of a safe space where the responsibilities of the outside world stay out?
MGP: It is the standard Master Gabber has set for His property. To people out there, it might sound like torture, but for this boy, the cage is the ultimate anchor. When Master Gabber locks this slave away for the night, all the need to think about “tomorrow” or the world’s problems vanishes. In that box, there are no more decisions to be made. The cage is the physical boundary that protects this boy from the weight of his own freedom. This slave doesn’t feel imprisoned, but actually feels safely stored – like a precious tool Master puts in a locker until He wishes to use it again. The tightness is an embrace of His authority; it’s the only place where this slave can truly switch off because the bars keep responsibility at bay.
MasterMarc: After that first awakening comes a tightly choreographed day governed by a long list of rituals, rules, and protocols. You’ve put together the most important ones for us (see box). But before we get into that: how does the day start once you present yourself to the Master after leaving the cage?
MGP: This boy kneels there with his head bowed, waiting for His first instructions. Often, Master uses His property immediately, as a utility for His morning needs – whether it’s for gifting His slave with His morning piss or to have some quick, hard “good morning” sex. The slave exists to ensure his Master has the best possible start to the day. For this slave, it’s the moment his total availability begins: this body is the first thing He uses, even before He eats His breakfast or plans the day. It shows the slave that he is important and useful to his Master. For this boy, it isn’t a chore; it’s the ultimate confirmation of the Master’s claim of ownership and this slave’s belonging to Him.
Always wear collar / always wear chastity cage / sleep in cage / always address Him as Master / not allowed to have money / wake up immediately when Master unlocks the lockbox / kneel naked in His bedroom, ready for morning use, watersports, or service / showers: hot water is forbidden / toilet: access by permission only / daily dildo training (oral and anal) / regular ass cleaning to be ready for use anytime / maintain a completely smooth body / clean His shoes with the tongue (soles included) / prepare and serve His breakfast and meals / eat only from a floor bowl with His permission / perform all household chores / naked with harness at home / wear only Master-approved clothing in public / furniture is forbidden / always greet Master (kneeling, kissing His shoes, offering the body) / drink His piss when ordered / always drive during car travel / study and practice Dutch / gym / car use restricted to Master-approved radius / He chooses the job and all spare time activities
MasterMarc: Looking at the list of your rules, it’s clear: this isn’t a hobby, it’s a full-time job. There isn’t a single second where this slave isn’t under protocol. How does it feel when even the most mundane things – like using the bathroom, eating, or even using furniture – are strictly regulated?
MGP: It is vital because it keeps the boy in a strict slave headspace. It provides security because one knows exactly what is expected, and at the same time, it’s a permanent form of mental alignment towards Master. It would be a lie to say it was or is always easy, but it isn’t meant to be. Becoming a slave was a conscious and free decision, something this boy searched for for a long time. Now, this slave has to live like a slave, and that is a good thing. Being a TPE slave isn’t a nine-to-five job; it’s a lifestyle. That means you are a slave even when you don’t feel like it, or when you’d rather be doing something else. As a slave, there is no more “I,” no more “I want” or “I don’t want.” There is only the will of the Master, and to that, the boy submits willingly and proudly.
MasterMarc: This “no more I” is evident in how you speak about yourself. It might surprise many readers that you always refer to yourself in the third person, but these are typical rules that help the slave stay in that headspace. The protocol, with its rules and rituals, isn’t just a restriction; it’s a help.
MGP: That is absolutely correct, Sir. Every time this slave speaks about himself, avoiding the word “I” is a conscious humiliation and, simultaneously, a liberation. It reminds this boy with every sentence that this slave is no longer an autonomous individual, but a part of Master Gabber’s life. Language is like an invisible collar that tightens with every word. It helps shatter the ego that so often gets in the way in the “normal” world. The protocol is the skeleton that keeps this boy upright when his own will would be too weak. It gives this slave something to hold onto. It provides structure and meaning – something that was missing before becoming His property.
MasterMarc: You say the protocol gives security, structure, and meaning. But at the same time, it’s an internal struggle not to violate it, much like we all feel with speed limits. How important is the threat of punishment for non-compliance in the life of a slave?
MGP: The threat of punishment is the beating heart of the protocol. Without consequence, a rule is just a well-meaning suggestion. For this slave, it is essential to know that every mistake – whether a forgotten word, improperly folded pants, or an unauthorized bathroom break – results in pain or other punishments. The fear of being punished keeps this property’s senses razor-sharp. But it’s not a paralyzing fear; it’s an arousing one. The pain Master Gabber inflicts when this slave has failed is the correction that puts this boy back on track. Punishment is the proof that this slave’s behavior matters to Him. A Master who does not punish does not lead. Punishment cleanses and solidifies order; it makes the protocol real. This slave is grateful for every punishment or correction received.
MasterMarc: That’s a crucial point: punishment isn’t violence; it’s a service to improve the slave. As a Master, one doesn’t punish to harm the slave, but to develop and advance him as a slave. The motivation is positive, not negative, and certainly not destructive. Outsiders often see this the wrong way because they have no experience with this lifestyle.
MGP: Sir, that is exactly how this slave feels. Every punishment by Master Gabber is an investment in this property. When this boy is disciplined for a mistake, he feels His will to perfect this slave. It is a form of care that goes much deeper than mere kindness. Through His consistent leadership, this boy has learned not just to accept his place, but to fill it with pride.
MasterMarc: No furniture, eating from a bowl… what is it like for the boy to have his life take place on the floor?
MGP: Living on the floor means seeing the world from the only correct perspective for a slave. It is a constant, physical reminder of the hierarchy. While Master Gabber is lounging on the sofa or sitting at the table, this boy’s life literally takes place at His feet. There is no more comfortable level to escape to. Eating from a bowl, without cutlery, using only the mouth – it shatters the last remains of bourgeois pride. It’s a return to something primal, almost animalistic. It is humiliating but not in a negative way, it isn’t necessarily uncomfortable, it is grounding. The hard floor is the foundation upon which this boy builds his entire existence for the Master. When you are at the bottom, you cannot fall any further, you can only look up to your Master.
MasterMarc: You described the start of your day earlier. I know your Master organized a job for you in the Netherlands. So, the rest of your day depends on whether this boy goes to work or is fully at his Master’s disposal?
MGP: Yes, that’s true, though this slave remains the Master’s property even during “normal” work. The chain this slave proudly wears under his work clothes constantly reminds the boy of that. But of course, at the workplace, this boy isn’t kneeling naked on the floor, even if this boy would like that. 😉 Many kinksters live out being slaves as roleplay. For this slave, “normal” life at work or in a non-kink environment has become the roleplay. Being a slave is now this slave’s normality. It took time, but it is reality now. This slave remains a slave, even if third parties treat him as a normal employee, a lovely son, or a good friend, and even if this slave acts that way. And believe this boy, he is always genuinely happy to arrive back home, to finally behave completely as a slave again, to perform his household duties, and to be fully present for His Master.
MasterMarc: Let’s talk about your duties at home. What do you consider your most important responsibilities?
MGP: This slave’s most important duty is to create an environment where Master Gabber feels completely at ease, so He can focus on His goals. This boy is responsible for the entire order of the house. It means that home must always be spotless, His laundry must be perfectly maintained and ready, and all errands must be completed.
Since this slave has no money of his own, this boy does all shopping in His name and according to His instructions.
There are also duties that challenge this boy mentally. Master Gabber decided that this slave must master the Dutch language perfectly to be fully functional here. Daily studying is a fixed task on the service schedule.
And, of course, physical readiness is vital. This slave must be shaved, clean, and in His chastity cage at all times, should He wish to use this body for His needs. Then there are the ritual duties, such as cleaning His shoes, and occasionally the soles, with the tongue when Master comes home. This is how this slave shows Him that he knows his place and that his life is completely in service to Master.
MasterMarc: You mentioned financial dependence. For many, that’s an absolute no-go. You, however, seem very satisfied with it.
MGP: This slave feels absolutely satisfied with it, Sir. To the outside world, money means control, freedom, individuality, and privacy: these values are completely inappropriate for a slave’s lifestyle: a property is not meant to own other properties, but to be owned itself. Also, for this slave, economic freedom represented the exposure to pressure, responsibility, and the constant need to make decisions. This boy chose to give up all of this. Master having total control over the whole financial aspect is a massive psychological relief for this boy. There is no “private life” left to buy. When this slave works, this boy generates resources for His household, to which this slave belongs. The Master carries the responsibility, and the slave doesn’t have to worry about a thing. It’s actually comparable to the old classical family life, where the father, as the head of the family, managed the finances. Furthermore, it’s an act of deep trust: this boy gives Him everything he has, and in return, He ensures His property lacks for nothing. Owning no money, there is no risk or temptation to fall back into old, egoistic patterns. It solidifies the reality that this slave has found the right place at His feet in every sense, including economically.
MasterMarc: Dependence is a key instrument in TPE, and yes, finances are a big part of that. It is an act of trust. But I am sure this boy didn’t just give that trust blindly to just anyone.
MGP: Absolutely not, Sir. Trust of this magnitude must be earned, and Master Gabber has proven that He can not only rule but lead. The most important reason for this trust is that He has a long-term plan for this boy’s life. This boy isn’t a short-term toy to Him, instead, this slave is also His investment. He organized the move, found the job, and still pushes this slave daily to learn the language and integrate. Master Gabber is building the future of this property brick by brick – a future this boy could never have planned on his own. Beyond that, the trust is justified by His consistency. Out there, people are unpredictable. Master Gabber is absolutely reliable in His strictness but also in His care. He is the architect, and this boy is the material that only gains shape and meaning through His hands.
MasterMarc: Yet we all live – and more importantly, your Master lives – in a non-BDSM world. How do you live your Master/slave life outside the “safe” kink environment?
MGP: It’s a constant game with a second reality: the one that outsiders like to see as “normal,” Sir. To the outside, this boy appears as a polite, perhaps somewhat reserved young man. Outside the house, there is a kind of “invisible protocol.” This slave never acts fully autonomously. During visits, like with Master’s family, this slave might sit at the table and participate in the conversation, but internally, this boy is constantly waiting for non-verbal signals from his Master. Is this boy allowed to eat? Is this boy allowed to speak? May this boy serve drinks or food? The social world out there is like a play where this slave performs a role, while the actual truth – total surrender – remains hidden. There is no “free time” with friends or colleagues; social contacts only happen if He plans them. This exclusivity protects this boy from being pulled out of his headspace by the influences of the “normal” world.
MasterMarc: That sounds like immense mental discipline. It means that even when Master Gabber isn’t in the room, like during work, you are never “free” in the conventional sense. Is this permanent focus exhausting, or does it give you the strength to master daily life in a foreign country?
MGP: It is the only source of strength this boy has. Without this focus, this slave would be just a lonely stranger in the Netherlands without any orientation. Through His structure, every second of the day, no matter where this boy is, has one goal: to make Him proud and to fulfill His will. The effort is nothing compared to the emptiness this boy felt before.
MasterMarc: We’re coming to the end of the interview. It’s time to tell us how a typical slave’s day in the Gabber household comes to a close.
MGP: Of course, Sir. Before being locked in the cage for the night, this slave must wish a good night to Master. Moreover, there’s also a Prayer for Master that this slave says every night before sleeping, to celebrate His power and enforce this slave’s total devotion to Him:
O Superieure Meester,
Uw macht is als een zon die nooit ondergaat.
U bent het fundament van Uw slaaf’s bestaan.
Uw slaaf is slechts een schaduw onder Uw licht,
een verlengstuk van Uw wil.
Uw slaaf’s ziel is een spiegel van Uw genot.
Uw slaaf smeekt om U te dienen.
Uw slaaf onderwerpt zich volledig, met lichaam en geest.
Oh Superior Master,
Your power is like a sun that never sets.
You are the foundation of Your slave’s existence.
Your slave is only a shadow under Your light,
an extension of Your will.
Your slave’s soul is a mirror of Your pleasure.
Your slave begs to serve You.
Your slave submits completely, with body and spirit.
Hearing about MGP’s life & perspectives is fascinating. I hope him & his Master agree to do more interviews like this