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Personal thoughts of a sadistic Master
Hello my dear readers!
Let´s talk about the psychological effect that protocol training has on a slave and why it´s important to practice it regularly, if you want to train the slave overall. A slave needs to learn to follow finger signs and to take special positions without being forced. Why? Because to follow finger signs and to follow given commands to take special positions makes the slave act, like a trained animal. Being on the same level as an animal, or let´s say cattle, is usually quite humiliating for a slave, because he still refers to himself as a human and not as an animal, and it takes time that the slave gets used to be treated like an animal. The thing is, that a slave needs to understand, that it is a normal thing for him to be treated like cattle. It´s a normal thing for a slave, to get inspected and to have his whole body exposed and checked. It´s a normal thing for a slave, that a slave has to show his teeth to his owner, so that the owner is able to check the slave´s health condition. And it´s also a normal thing for a slave, that a slave eats and drinks out of a dog bowl. This kind of treatment is usually done to be clear about the hierarchy between the master and the slave. And doing regular protocol training follows the same purpose.
Protocol training also helps the slave to accept the fact that he has to overcome his natural resistance to behave like an animal. But it is exactly that what is wanted by the master. If protocol training is done regularly, a kind of reprogramming of the slave is the logical consequence. Sooner or later it will be absolute normal for the slave, to respond to finger signs and to take special positions, if ordered by his master. In the long run, it helps the slave to develop and to get more into his role and place. So you see that this kind of training is more for the slave´s own good than to really humiliate him, because it will push his boundaries and it will change his mindset.
“IT”
The next step, if you want to follow this path, is to train the slave to refer to himself as an object. If you train a slave that way the logical consequence is that he will be dehumanized. He will learn that he is only an object for his owner, which will be treated, as his master sees fit. And if the object isn´t needed anymore it is simply stored away somehow, somewhere. But let´s be clear about the fact that this is one of the highest levels in a relationship between a master and a slave and not every slave is really capable of such treatment. To make the development to really become an “IT” is a long and heavy road to travel on. The precondition to go this way is that the slave is really willing to forget his name for example. Usually this only happens when the slave is really a 24/7 slave and always under the control of his owner. For many it´s a wanking phantasy to be treated like that but in reality, it is a hard thing to be done to a slave.
Getting mind fucked and why it´s good
Professional SM is, of course, much more, then just being tied up, getting tortured and then fucked. That´s something that is done in gay clubs and sleazy places but usually has nothing to do with professional SM. But I talked about this earlier in other articles before and will definitely not repeat all of that here. But as I said, it´s more than just being tied up, beaten, and fucked. A big part is also the psychological mind fucking. What do I mean with this? Let me give you an example. Last time that my black slave boy visited me we started relatively “normal”. You can read about it in my column from last week. During the second day of his training I took my slave boy with me in my bed room and ordered him to lay next to me. I just wanted to rest a bit and to have that slave next to me to enjoy his body. To make a long story short, after some time I started to kiss the nigger slave boy. I could see the confusion is his eyes, but he followed what I started, and we had a wonderful 3 hours in the sheets. After I was satisfied, I went down to the dungeon with him again. Than he had to serve as an ashtray again and he got whipped and tortured again. 4 days later he messaged me this text:
”Yes the weekend was really great. A little confusing though and I am struggling a bit to know my place.”
It´s obvious that he got mind fucked by how I treated him. In one moment he is tied up and gets bullwhipped hard and brutal and in the next moment he is allowed to lay in his master´s bed and gets kissed and told his master loves him, and then again, he is tied up and spanked and electro tortured. Why did I do what I did? Because I wanted to have his brain rotating. I wanted to mind fuck him and I will definitely do that again. He has to learn that he will be used for everything. That includes that he gets kissed or caressed if I am in the mood to show affectionateness. This was exactly what was done to slaves in all times. If the master wants to have his sadistic side satisfied, then the slave gets tortured or whipped or whatever. But it is also possible that the slave owner wants sex and then the slave gets fucked and if master wants to give some affectionateness then the slave gets kissed. But all this belongs together and doesn´t change the position or role of the slave. This is one part of getting trained overall. Being a slave, being someone´s property, means, nothing is excluded, nothing is out of bounds. A slave is used for WHATEVER his master wants, for however his master sees fit. And guess what? This was a normal thing, that was done with every slave, in all times of history. In all cultures, slaves were used to give their owners a good time. And it doesn´t matter if the slave had to play an instrument to entertain his master, or if a slave had to dance for his owner or to do house choirs or if he was used for sex and for affectionateness. All this was, and still is, normal treatment for a slave and surely doesn´t change the place or role that a slave has. But I admit that this can be a hard part to learn and I understand that a slave can struggle with it. That´s the reason this is called mind fucking. The only important thing is, that the clear hierarchy between a master and his slave is never weakened up if you use your slave also for the things I described above. I have seen and known many tops that lose their “topness”, because once they start to kiss a slave, it usually doesn’t take long until they treat their slave like an equal, lover or partner. And that´s the big difference to most everything else in SM. Mind fucking takes a strong Master and not a strong slave. If the slave starts to struggle, it is the duty of the slave´s owner to put the slave back in track and to not let there be any weakness. That´s the reason why most Tops or Dominants, or however you want to call it, fail in this area of SM.
More psychological “games” – the harmless ones
Of course there are more psychological games that can be used to teach the slave about his role and place. Let me list some ways, that don´t use physical force and that are quite harmless and that are very good useable to introduce a “newbie” to the real SM.
The No-furniture-rule: One quite common thing is, that the slave is forbidden, to use any furniture when he is allowed, to be in the same room of the house/flat as his master is. This way the slave learns, that he doesn’t have the same rights or privileges as his owner.
The dog bowl: This is also a quite normal thing, that is done to most slaves. Most slaves are told to eat and drink their food, out of dog bowls. This behavior serves the same purpose and the protocol training. When you just look at it, it seems to be mean and humiliating but it serves a greater goal. The idea behind it is again, to help the slave, to be clear about the hierarchy and about his role and place. He is treated like an animal, because he is on the same level as an animal.
The-way-of-speaking-rule: Another harmless way to influence the behavior of a slave, is to teach him, how to speak. There are several examples of how this can be done. Most slave owners have their own way, how they want to be addressed. I, for example, like to be addressed as Massa. Others prefer to be called Master, Sir or Dad. You could tell the slave now, to end every sentence with the word you prefer. For example: Yes Master, of course Master and so on. This way the slave learns, to address you right and it also gets usual for him, to follow rules.
The change of appearance: A slave should be prepared for the fact, that a master might want to change the appearance of the slave. And I am not talking about body-modifications like tattoos or brandings or piercings. That´s something I will write about later. Harmless changes can be for example: the slave gets a different haircut, or the slave is sent to a gym and given a strict training plan to change his body, for example make him become more muscular or to put him on a strict diet, to make him loose fat and so on.
The control of the slave´s normal life: It´s also thinkable that the owner of the slave take control over the slave´s normal life. The master could take control over his clothes for example. He could tell the slave what to wear or when to wear special clothes. The master could tell him to for example to take pictures everywhere he goes and to send it to his master. This way the slave would slowly get used to be controlled.
House choirs and other services: The next possibility to take influence on a slave´s mind is to slowly make him get used to do services that don´t hurt. The master could order the slave to clean his bedroom or the playroom. If it is done slowly and step by step, the slave will get used to do services for his master and it will become a normal thing for him to do so. Of course this will definitely make the slave become more and more submissive.
More psychological games – the harder ones
The change of appearance, part two: The next level of this step is to do physical changes that are combined with pain. For example, the master could decide, that he wants his slaved to be pierced. And it doesn´t matter if it´s the nipples, that get pierced or the ball sack or the dick. Or the slave owner could decide, that he wants to have his slave tattooed. These are physical changes that can hardly be inversed.
The chastity device: Another way to control your slave and to change his mind, is to keep the slave in chastity. When the slave is used to having free orgasms and to be able to get satisfaction through his dick this will definitely be a hard change for him. It will definitely change his mindset, when suddenly someone else, in this case the owner of the slave, will control his sexual pleasure and stimulation. If you don´t use a really fitting device, it´s possible, that after some time, you feel some kind of pain, because of your balls, that get bigger and bigger. ? The solution about a fitting device is: Try and error. Each dick and each ball sack is different. It will probably takes some time and some money before you really have a matching device. But the experience is definitely worth it.
The electro collar: This is definitely a device, that will turn a resistant slave into an obedient slave. Those kinds of collars are available in various forms and styles. The idea behind it: If the slave is disobedient, he can immediately be punished with an electro shock. Depending on the power of the device, this can be quite painful. The longer such a collar is worn, the better the slave will obey to commands and limits.
Yours,
