Kink is a buffet, but are you brave enough to taste it all? From a hilarious Puppy-Play-experiment with OnlyFans-creator Mark S. Weng to deep Master-Slave-dynamics, I explore why curiosity is key. Learn why you should be open – and not just in the ass. True Gate-Opening starts in the mind. Are you ready to serve?
The kink world is so incredibly diverse that we have to remind ourselves of one thing: not everyone likes everything. Think of it as a massive, colorful buffet. You’re standing there looking at things you absolutely love, others you’ve tried and now know aren’t your thing, new stuff that piques your curiosity, and finally, those platters you know for a fact you’ll never touch.
It’s the same in Kink Life. What you find incredibly hot might leave your partner totally cold. But things get really interesting when boys are curious enough to try it anyway – or simply well-trained enough to do it just because their Master asks. Of course, I have to differentiate here between a casual session and a real CNC (Consensual Non-Consent) dynamic.
With that in mind, let’s look back at a situation that falls exactly into this category.
By now, you’re all familiar with content creator Mark S. Weng from my articles, especially those videos with Slave Ru that I’m sure some of you remember vividly. But my first encounter with Mark goes back even further.
It all started with a chat. He told me he was a total spankee through and through but was dying to explore the deeper, unknown sides of BDSM. His specific request: could he visit me as a slave, and could we film it so he’d have content for his OnlyFans?
I was unsure at first. My instinct told me even then that he’d probably never be a “full-blooded” slave. Still, the setup intrigued me, precisely because he came with the clear goal of exploring kink while creating content.
That moment triggered memories of an encounter over 13 years ago. Back then, I met a young Chinese student who had just arrived in Europe. That was Slave Pu. I was one of his first dates on this new continent and his first real BDSM experience. What began as a fleeting encounter evolved into a service relationship that lasts to this day. Even now, living back in Shanghai, he visits me every time he’s in Europe to serve me. We became an intense Master-Slave duo and developed a deep, honest friendship.
With these two polar opposite but defining experiences in mind, the deep loyalty of a Pu on one side and the modern curiosity of a Mark on the other, I was extremely curious to see the “Neo-European” Mark and find out what awaited us in the dungeon.
Gate-Opening in the Dungeon
So there he was, kneeling expectantly in the elevator. Of course, he didn’t get out of the full inspection process, but I don’t need to tell you regulars about the details of that procedure. If you need a refresher, go back and check how we examine the “merchandise” in ‘The Inspection‘. As we spent the following hours trying different things, my first impression was quickly confirmed: Mark is definitely kinky, but at his core, he isn’t a traditional slave.
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However, in moments like these, I often see myself as a “Gate-Opener” – someone who opens doors to new worlds. That’s why, on the second day, I decided to bring in one of my regulars: Slave Jati. Honestly, it’s long overdue that Jati gets his own article. He’s practically part of the dungeon furniture, yet he’s usually only mentioned in passing. That’s going to change soon. Together, we produced a ton of content over those few days, some of which I’m showing you today.
At some point Jati, who is a passionate fan of pet play, suggested we create some “Puppy Content.” You know my stance on this: elements like staying on the floor or feeding from a bowl are, for me, fundamental parts of slave training, as you can read in detail in ‘Slave Feeding‘. But I personally can’t get much out of pet play as a standalone fetish.
To put it bluntly: I think pet play is something pups should do among themselves. They should establish and live out their own hierarchies, but I find a “Handler” pretty redundant :)). However, since the goal those days was to give Mark a deeper look into the diverse world of kink, I thought the idea wasn’t bad at all.
Jati and I looked at Mark, who just stared back at us with a giant question mark on his face. So Jati began to explain the fascination of the fetish – the playfulness of it and the liberating feeling of letting go of your everyday life and all responsibilities by becoming a dog. I grabbed one of the hood masks I have in the fundus, and Jati gave the lead: “Just copy everything I do.”
Hehe, in the video below, you can see Mark’s first, rather clumsy steps as a pup. You can see in every second that this world is completely foreign to him. I have to admit, as a spectator, I was thoroughly entertained 🙂. When I realized that Mark wasn’t showing the same enthusiasm he usually does, like when he’s passionately delivering during a spanking, I decided to force the dynamic a bit. I fetched a bone for motivation… oh wait, no, it was a double dildo. That definitely helped the two of them spice up the game.
Conclusion: Openness Starts in the Mind
But let’s set aside Mark’s comedic performance for a moment and get serious. We all rely on, and almost demand, that others accept us as we are. We want our kinks, the things we find incredibly hot, to be at least respected.
But that’s exactly where our own responsibility lies: we must equally accept when others don’t share our preferences or when they have kinks we can’t relate to. It’s the principle of “live and let live.” True strength is shown by staying open and staying interested in new things, even if they don’t thrill you at first glance.
Be open – and not just in the ass, but in the mind! I can tell you from experience that this attitude has opened doors for me that I thought were locked forever. Especially regarding TPE (Total Power Exchange) slaves, I know for a fact: you can get boys used to things until they eventually love them. It doesn’t work in every case, but in many, provided you approach the whole thing correctly from a psychological standpoint.
Mark threw himself into a lot, even though it was clear he’s not the classic slave type. And you know what? He doesn’t have to be. His honest interest in kink is what matters. And because of that, it wasn’t just a one-time visit. You’ll definitely be seeing more of him around here.
