The fetish world is a vibrant spectrum, far beyond simple tops and bottoms. Pup Blade, a 22-year-old switch from D.C., is diving into its gray areas. He started as a sub, now he’s exploring his dominant side, specifically as a dominant bottom. Get ready to plunge into his world where boundaries blur and power flips.
The fetish world isn’t merely a stark landscape of black and white, despite what some traditional kinksters might suggest. It’s a riot of colors, a fluid spectrum far beyond just rigid Dom-tops and sub-bottoms. Kink, much like sexuality itself, unfurls across countless shades, with many beautiful souls finding their truth somewhere between the extremes. Today, I’m thrilled to speak with Pup Blade, a captivating 22-year-old from Washington, D.C. He began his journey as a submissive bottom, a role he cherishes, but recently, a new hunger has stirred within him—a desire to explore his dominant side. Now, he proudly calls himself a switch, relishing both topping and bottoming, domming and subbing. Most intriguing of all, he’s charting new, exhilarating territory: becoming a dominant bottom. Let’s plunge into these delicious gray areas and uncover all their shadowy delights.
MasterMarc: Hi Blade. Let’s make this quick. Tell me you’re a true sub, ready to serve and be used, and we can ditch this talk for some immediate action. What do you say, boy? Or perhaps we should chat first, leaving endless possibilities for another cute kinkster…
Pup Blade: I have to admit, that’s a tempting offer! But I’ve been looking forward to this conversation too much to let my inner sub get the best of me. Let’s chat first and see where things go.
MasterMarc: Hehe… Okay, boy, you’ve won this round. Tell us, what were your scorching first steps into this wild, kinky world?
Pup Blade: I think my story is similar to many others. I knew from a young age that I had different, more extreme interests. Tumblr was my first exposure to kink, and of course, puppy play, but it wasn’t until college that I started experimenting with actual scenes. Once I graduated college and moved to Washington, I started building relationships outside of the bedroom (or dungeon) with my scene partners that allowed to me really dig into kink and feel comfortable exploring and pushing my own limits. Practicing responsible kink with friends instead of strangers from Recon played a huge role in my kink journey.
MasterMarc: Come on, boy, don’t be shy! What are those “more extreme interests” that ignited your inner fire? Spill the raw details!
Pup Blade: Haha, fine, have it your way. I was always fascinated by kidnapping, bondage, getting drugged (which I’ve found a safer, less intense outlet with poppers), brainwashing, and hypnosis. As a kid, I couldn’t put my finger on why watching brainwashing in cartoons excited me so much, but now that I’m older, it makes perfect sense!
Friends, Filth, and Full Immersion
MasterMarc: Oh, that sounds precisely like my kind of depravity, and it screams SUB! So, let’s just stop this interview right now and get straight to playing…
Pup Blade: Haha, we’re not done yet!!
MasterMarc: Okay… okay… Good SM is forged in trust, and that takes time. So, I completely get why you love to play with people you truly know. Explain to us, boy, how did the very quality and character of your scenes transform when you started playing with trusted friends?
Pup Blade: Sure, when you play with strangers, there’s certain unknowns you have to anticipate. It’s definitely dangerous to not at least talk beforehand, and no good Dom will ever lay a hand on you before you’ve had a lengthy conversation in person. Even if it’s someone you feel you know well enough to play with, there’s still variables you may not have accounted for, such as how intense they want to get or a kink of theirs you may not share. When I moved to DC, I met my best friend and puppy brother Pup Wilde (@PupWilde on Twitter). We started playing together regularly and also spending lots of time together outside of kink/sex. We know each other’s stories, backgrounds, histories, and fantasies and it helps us explore our kinks on a much deeper level. Not to mention, I am 100% confident he would never hurt me and I’d never hurt him. I have a whole gaggle of friends that I go out with, get dinner with, and also play with, and I know whenever the ropes come out it’s all about fun and safety.
MasterMarc: You’ve told us how finding kinky friends shifted your private life, but how has it irrevocably altered your sexual life?
Pup Blade: It’s made my sex life extraordinarily better. I have friends that know exactly how my body ticks. They know when I’m uncomfortable versus when I need out of a scene. They know when something just feels good and when it’s getting me close. They know exactly how many hits of poppers I can take, how long I can go without air, etc. Most of all, they know exactly how to make me squirm and beg. This all goes for me relative to them, too haha.
My Kinky Canvas: From Sub to Switch
MasterMarc: Uff, boy, we’re not in Sunday school! What in the unholy hell are you really into? Give me the explicit list!
Pup Blade: I don’t have a fixed list of interests! My main kink is exploration. I’ve had experience with bondage, S&M, water sports, breath play, extended bondage/edging, forced milking scenes, wax play, suspension bondage, e-stim, spanking, CBT, flogging, (attempted) fisting, and so many others! Some of which I enjoyed, others I’m in no rush to try again. I’d say my main kinks are restrictive bondage and a nice long edging, but I’ve always considered edging to be the “low-hanging fruit” of kink haha. I enjoy being punished and punishing others. One of my more “controversial” kinks is punishment via ruined orgasm after a boy has been edged for hours. There’s something so simple, yet so evil about it. Plus, you don’t have to worry about hurting your sub. As a Dom, I’ve also gotten really into edging boys with my ass. There’s something both satisfying and creative about taking alpha tops and using what they see as their “strength” against them.
MasterMarc: You began your kinky journey as a sub. Were there specific reasons that pulled you into that initial role?
Pup Blade: My original fascination with kink was the idea of letting go of control and putting someone else in charge. I started as a sub because, well, it’s easier that way. When you’re inexperienced and new, taking control over someone else is dangerous. After I spent a few years subbing, I started to learn what made a good Dom, and I started easing into that role slowly. It turned me on more than I thought, and now I can stay hard while domming someone else for an entire scene just on the power exchange.
MasterMarc: Do you find yourself gravitating more towards dominating or submitting these days? And what’s the intoxicating allure of being a Dom?
Pup Blade: Interesting question, I sort of fluctuate. Sometimes I’m in a really dominant mood, other times I just need to be tied up. It also depends a lot on my partner. I typically like to Dom guys around my age or younger, and but I’ll sub for a person based on how much experience they have.
MasterMarc: For me, the vast chasm between a Dom and a true Master lies in the Master’s primal need to take full responsibility for his boy. How do you see that, and would you brand yourself a Dom or a Master? What are the profound distinctions between these two powerful roles for you?
Pup Blade: For me, I’m not really looking to take on a “Master” role, or even really an Alpha, which is a similar title for the pup community. I love my scenes to stay in the bedroom and I don’t want my kink dynamics to affect the incredible friendships I’ve built with people through kinky sex. I’ve seen so many people ruin relationships through Master/slave, alpha/beta, collaring, etc. that I’d rather keep kink about fun and not about protocol. I know that’s an unpopular opinion, but it’s just how I’m doing things right now as a 22-year-old new to the scene. I think there’s definitely healthy versions of those relationships, but there’s a certain risk you have to accept.
The Dominant Bottom: Flipping the Script
MasterMarc: You brand yourself a “Dom Bottom.” Unpack that for us, boy. What exactly does that electrifying phrase mean to you?
Pup Blade: Haha, of course! As a switch, I Dom other guys about 50% of the time. I top guys too, but I don’t think that the two need to go hand in hand! I love getting a “totes masc Dom top” strapped to my bed and riding them, but not letting them cum for hours. It’s just my take on being dominant, while also using my strengths. You should see how thirsty some tops get when they think they’re going to get to unload in a bottom’s ass, but it’s the bottom that keeps them denied. There’s nothing hotter!
MasterMarc: So, it’s about seizing control, changing the very rules of the game while you’re theoretically being dominated, and igniting a bottom’s powerful counter-play?
Pup Blade: Exactly! There’s no reason bottoming should be tied to submitting. I want to empower myself through every part of my sexuality, which means mix matching my kinks and pushing boundaries. It’s so hot seeing a top’s confusion when I get on top of them and they realize they’re not in control. It’s a first for a lot of tops.
MasterMarc: And how do they react? What’s the raw, unadulterated pleasure of witnessing their confusion?
Pup Blade: When I get them close and then pull off them, it’s almost 100% of the time they end up helplessly humping the air wondering what happened.
MasterMarc: What do you savor doing in those moments? How do you deliciously surprise the top, and how do you exploit that delicious shift in power?
Pup Blade: I usually start by getting them close by tradition edging, using my hand, a fleshlight, Venus pump, magic wand, etc. and then once they’re desperate, I take my seat on their dick. They always almost assume it’s because I’m ready to let them cum and I want their load, but they’re always shocked when the edging continues.
MasterMarc: Oh, so you take a seat on their dick… does that mean you never pound as a top, boy?
Pup Blade: I wouldn’t say never. Right now it’s not my preference, but I do expect that will change in the future.
MasterMarc: Why do you believe your desires will evolve in the future? What makes you so sure of this kinky evolution?
Pup Blade: My kinks and interests are always expanding and changing, so I think it would be naive of me to say I’ll be a bottom forever. I’ve topped in the past and enjoyed it, so I plan on doing more of it. Bottoms can slide into my DM’s too!
Navigating the Spectrum: Advice for Newbies
MasterMarc: I started this by saying the kinkster world isn’t black and white, but a glorious tapestry of grey shades and vibrant colors. What raw, essential advice would you offer to a young boy who feels his needs and desires defy the stereotypes pushed on so many newbies?
Pup Blade: The advice I’d give is this. Don’t call someone Sir before they tell you their name. Don’t confuse rough tops with Dom tops. Always discuss your interests in a scene 24 hours in advance to make sure it’s your brain talking, not your dick. And most importantly, don’t let anyone tell you what you are or what your kink experience should look like. Listen to yourself and enjoy the experiences you have for what they are, and don’t worry about fitting in one box or another. It’s always okay to explore.
Pup Blade has truly ripped open the possibilities, proving that kink is a limitless canvas for self-expression, even when it means flipping traditional power dynamics on their head. His journey as a dominant bottom is a thrilling testament to the endless shades of desire.
What about Pup Blade’s exploration of being a dominant bottom resonated most with you? Does his advice for navigating the fluid world of kink spark any new thoughts about your own journey? Share your comments below!
