Hey there readers, we got a sexy beardman here today. Cuteplaytoy, tell us a bit about yourself: How exactly do you like to be played/toyed around with?
Hi kinksters! Well, this is a kind of easy question to ask, and the people who know me know very well that my main kink is bondage. From mild and artistic bondage to heavy bondage using different types of devices and gear like heavy metal shackles, chains, cuffs, collars, hoods, gags, blindfolds and medical gear such as segufix, and on top of that straightjackets, i’ve always felt a wild atrraction for them, and they have become an important item in almost all my scenes.
I’m also into uniforms, some of my favorite scenes include army gear, hi-viz, sports wear, police, etc… even formal suits! i think guys look very handsome in shirt and tie hehe. And i feel special attraction for prison role play, imagine the quantity of handcuffs and shakles that can be involved in a prison scene! ha ha! superkinky i am!. Anyway i’m always open to experiment new things, as far as i’m concerned, you never know if you are missing something until you try it, right?
Hehe absolutely. I’m curious, does different sorts of bondage give you different sensations or feelings? Like for example heavy metal bondage vs. Medical Segufix/ straightjacket or Shibari?
I think it depends on the mind set i am in at that moment. When I meet for shibari and rope bondage, it is more relaxed, as it tends to be a slower session. people who tie up with rope like their time to make the tying up look beautiful and make me look beautiful in its knots too. there’s dominance in that but not in a sexual dirty way, it is more erotica, and sometimes it is art. I really like it because that excitation relaxes me and the sensation on the skin is more subtle.
On the other hand, when playing with heavy bondage items, like metal, shackles or straightjackets i tend to be on a very sub mind set, a little bit naughty and cheeky, but very subby. in those cases i try to take out the best of the feelings of being under control of a guy i consider hot and sexy and having him deciding what is coming next for me, putting me in different situations, predicaments and positions and using different gear.
That makes me so horny. this kind of sessions involve more role play and they can go on for hours or even days (with some breaks, obviously), but the bond I end up having with the person who is dominating me is amazing. And obviously I enjoy it. That kind of bondage and submission can be very beautiful as well but it can be very sleazy, and that’s something I really enjoy.
What does the role-play do for your mindset during play? How does this usually develop, change your perception etc. and how deep does it go?
To be honest, role play situations in which i am playing the sub part are always fun and turn me on because i find them kinky and extremely exciting. I wouldn’t be able to tell you why, maybe it’s just a mix of just letting your mind go and explore your deepest kinky fantasies and the presence of a hot guy trying to dominate me and, obviously being in control of all my movements.
But the role play needs to include bondage and restrains to really turn me on and put me in a really submissive mind set and mood. When I am in one of this kind of scenes i like to follow orders and let the top take control of all the game, although i’m very naughty and i misbehave a little bit to spice the game up. In the end, it’s a game, and the result has to be having a fun experience for both of the players.
Haha well answered. But I’d like to inquire on one word you used right at the end: Game. Is it maybe that aspect?
Yes, i think it is a game, an exciting, kinky and full of pleasure game with two players who get to bring to life some of their kinky dark fantasies. And both have fun. For me that’s so important, we both need to be having fun doing it. When i meet somebody for a bondage session part of my enjoyment comes from seeing the top having fun tying me up.
What would you say is one of the experiences where you really got deep into that play with someone and you remember well?
I think i have had many of those experiences. I consider myself a very friendly person and I’m always up for meeting new bondage tops who end up being good friends. One of the best experiences of my life is going to folsom europe as a slave of a master i was with by that time. I spent an amazing long weekend sharing and giving all my love and respect to that master while he kept me safe and sound in different bondage scenes and mark very well his posession. it was like living one of those dirty fantasies we were talking about before.
Plus being in public in handcuffs, gagged or strapped in a straightjacket, as I was for the street fair that year, was a huge turn on and put me in a very submissive headspace, something the master liked a lot. I had other experiences in which I got really deep as well, I have a very good master and friend who i visit frequently and everytime I do, I get into that play so deeply that I discovered myself kneeling in front of him even having a coffee after the game. It came out of nowhere and it was pretty cool, now I always wait for permission to even sit on the floor or the sofa when I visit him. And I’m supper happy with that.
Ok, last question. What dirty fantasy role play you did not yet get to live out but would like to 😉 ?
Oh! haha! there’s lots of them! But I would say, despite of having had a little taste of it a couple of times, that i would love to live a full prison role play. Going for some days to one of those prison facilities and getting imprisoned there with lots of chains, handcuffs, shackles, straightjackets and heavy irons and, of course, sexy and likeminded guards to keep me safe and in my place, is one of my big turn ons and still a fetish goal to accomplish. We’ve all seen the videos on the internet about this kind of games on sites like meninchains or serious male bondage and I have to admit that I wanked a lot of times with these scenarios.
I find superhot the atmosphere and the whole set up of the game. I guess that that would be the main fantasy these days, although i have other ones, mainly related to being a bondage boy or gimp and being controlled, kidnapped, tied up, straightjacketed, sensory deprived, gagged, blindfolded, hooded… i would say, propose me something related to that and if i haven’t done it yet, it will become a fantasy to fulfil, that’s for sure.
