He’s an artist and a sub who lives to shatter your definition of “normal.” BoomerSM plunges into the depths of master/slave, rubber, leather, bondage, humiliation, and even ABDL. From childhood piss games to finding freedom in constraints, get ready for a raw, unfiltered look at a man who thrives on being owned.
MasterMarc: Hi BoomerSM! What’s your “subjective normality” in this wild kinky world, and what raw desires consume you?
BoomerSM: Hi Sir! Subjective normality? I don’t like even considering normality in most things. What’s normal for me is crazy for you…. but in the kink world in particular, I think it’s important not to assume normality by any stretch.
As for what I’m into? Uh…. lots. In no order – master/slave/gimp, rubber, leather, bondage – especially mummification, ABDL, breath play, watersports, humiliation… and crazier fantastical things like mind control.
MasterMarc: When did you first realize there was more to sex than vanilla, and that you harbored these electrifying kinky desires? What were your very first steps into this dark, alluring world?
BoomerSM: From a very early age. So many cartoons gave me that weird feeling you didn’t realise was arousal until later in life… My first kink was pissing my jeans and hurriedly cleaning up. By 15 I knew I was a sub at heart.
My first sex experiences tended to be quite vanilla with others. Kink really got going as I got older, 18 or 19. The first time I took another dude’s piss I was on school holidays, freshly 18…. we were on the beach and I said I had to pee… he said just go in my shorts. I did… and before too long he dragged me in the toilet and peed straight down my throat. No asking permission. Just a finger to tell me where to kneel.
Embracing the Pervert: The Freedom of Surrender
MasterMarc: Hehe. Sounds like you instinctively knew your place, boy. But let’s delve deeper into that first experience at 15. I’m sure you remember a strange mix of feelings: a profound satisfaction, yet a prickle of shame, a sense of being a “pervert,” a secret you desperately wanted to hide. Can you unpack that internal conflict for us?
BoomerSM: Well, the feelings I had were never judgmental or freaked out. I was fortunate to have a very open house that taught me that being gay or whatever wasn’t bad. So when it came to kink, I extended those lessons to those feelings as well. I wanted to be peed on? So be it. Wanted to kneel? For the best.
MasterMarc: It seems we were both lucky enough to have such open families. Yet, I have to confess, I wrestled with myself first, agonizing over whether my desires were “normal.” I’m quite sure that desperate haste to clean up the piss mess had its reasons, didn’t it?
BoomerSM: Well, certainly there were moments of ‘oh god what’d I do’, and I understand that feeling of wondering if you’re normal. In your darker moments, you might wonder just what is wrong with you. I had moments like that. Certainly, if anyone ever talked about fetishes, I always got embarrassed and got out of there…
MasterMarc: So, when did you finally surrender and truly accept your own desires? Was there a pivotal, defining moment?
BoomerSM: The first time I really went ‘okay, this is who you are going to be’ was the first time someone else put a collar on me. It was humbling, it was powerful. To feel that weight around my neck and look up and see someone who I knew I had to obey… and at that moment I just realized that all those preconceived ideas of how sex and relationships are meant to go didn’t matter. That following the alternative path is just as valid.
My Inferior Life: Strength in Chains
MasterMarc: You say, “To be inferior just feels so right.” Can you unravel the magnetic attraction of being in this inferior position? What profound satisfaction does it deliver? Why do you revel in being used for the sheer pleasure of other men?
BoomerSM: It just feels so right. Feeling myself dehumanized, degraded. Feels like that’s where my life was leading me. Even beyond the sexual thrill, it just feels right in myself to kneel to superior men. To make their lives better at the expense of mine… It’s when I feel most like myself. When all the fakery of life falls away.
MasterMarc: So SM, for you, transcends mere sexual desire. How do you weave this raw submission into the very fabric of your non-sexual life?
BoomerSM: Well, I wear my chastity cage as much as I can around the place. To work, shopping, whatever. Same for diapers or stealth rubber under my clothes. It’s been a long time since I had a full-time master/slave relationship to make my every day life one of service…. but those Doms I do play with cram in some short term play beyond just the sex. Cleaning for them, carrying things. Little stuff to keep me in my place.
MasterMarc: How long have you lived in a full-time Master/slave relationship, and what profound differences did that period hold compared to the life you’re leading now?
BoomerSM: I’ve never been in any for particularly long, sadly. My longer term relationships with Doms always had some distance or something that got in the way. But for those I have had, it made me stronger in day to day life. I knew I had someone to look out for me, to help take pressure off, to make things simple. I obeyed my master and that was all I had to worry about. It made me more sure of myself at work, with friends. It was great.
MasterMarc: I often say that a life without a slave would leave me feeling incomplete. What do you miss most right now, in your current dynamic?
BoomerSM: Structure. A person to focus all the crazy strands of my life on. That companionship that is real and sometimes even somewhat romantic, but is still ‘unequal’. Keeps me in my place and lets me know if I fall, someone will catch me. With chains. And tape.
MasterMarc: You say, “I am a stronger person by living my inferior life.” Do you truly believe you gain strength by embracing an inferior existence? Is shedding liberties the ultimate path to freedom?
BoomerSM: I definitely am. I’m more confident, my self-esteem – though often shattered within individual scenes – goes through the roof. I always work better with constraints, with something coaxing me on where to go… and a good Dom can provide that. It’s the freedom to obey. To follow. To let my dick lead me where I know I will be happy.
Art & Acceptance: Illustrating the Kinky Truth
MasterMarc: To be your authentic self, to live your raw desires and needs—that always makes you feel stronger. Now, we must talk about your illustration on “normality.” What sparked the raw motivation to draw it?
BoomerSM: Well, I get messages on Tumblr a lot, asking for requests or saying what they like etc. I love getting messages from followers. I love interacting with people…. but this one guy said, and I quote… “I love your rubber drawings…. but that diaper shit is gross” I go on his profile… he regularly dresses in quasi cross-dressing rubber and drinks piss from a urinal hood… and he is calling DIAPERS gross? It made me so mad, and I drew that comic in a single night… the balls it takes to judge someone else’s kink while indulging in your own is the height of hypocrisy. We are all weirdos in what we like. Every kink has someone thinking us freaks, so why can’t we learn to accept others for what they enjoy (provided it’s all consensual and legal and what not).
MasterMarc: I totally agree, and it’s a vital truth: you must embrace others’ desires if you expect them to accept yours. The fetish life, and your personal kinks, are often a continuous evolution. There are moments when you’ll smash through a gate you thought was locked forever. So, being open to new experiences should be “normal” for kinksters. What are your thoughts on that, boy?
BoomerSM: You definitely should be up for new things. Diapers for example were always a hard limit. When I was young, I thought, ‘that’s so stupid’, just like this guy that messaged me. Turns out, I love them, and they tie so many of my kinks like piss and humiliation together. If I had stayed like this guy, I would miss out on so many great friends and new experiences.
Not to say you won’t ever have your limits or things you can’t stomach, of course. We all have limits. But to have a limit doesn’t mean you have to be a dick to the people who do like that thing. Or else you’re the king or queen of hypocrites.
MasterMarc: There’s nothing more to add! You’ve truly created a wealth of kinky illustrations, and we’re thrilled you’re sharing them on KINKFINITY too. Tell us, when and why did you plunge into this unique form of artwork?
BoomerSM: Well I was always drawing but never particularly well. A few years ago, when I started work, I had a lot of downtime that I filled with reading. But it wasn’t fulfilling. So I decided to really try and improve my drawings. I studied theatre and writing at university but turned out I was pretty good at comics! When I started to get better than stick figures, my mind quickly turned to porn. The good thing about art porn is you’re not constrained by actors or budget or realism. With enough effort, I can draw the craziest of things. Drones of rubber and monsters and the weird sex you both wish and don’t wish were real.
MasterMarc: Last but not least, I have to ask you a “stupid” question: Would you grace us with your absolute favorite illustration, and tell us why it holds such a special place in your dark heart?
BoomerSM: At the moment, it’s this one. For one, I’m just really happy with how it turned out. The colours and the shine on the rubber. For two, I love the mix of kinks. Rubber and Dom/sub, public humiliation and diapers… and lots of onlookers. Plus, I bothered to do a background for this one.
MasterMarc: Thank you, boy, it was a pleasure to talk to you, and I’m looking forward to seeing much more of your illustrations on KINKFINITY.
BoomerSM has ripped open his soul, revealing a complex, exhilarating world where “normality” is shattered, and freedom is found in the deepest forms of submission. His journey from childhood piss games to illustrating his wildest fantasies is truly captivating.
What aspects of BoomerSM’s philosophy on “inferiority,” his take on kink hypocrisy, or his raw artistic drive resonated most with you? Does his pursuit of self-acceptance through unconventional desires spark your own curiosities? Share your comments below!
