Yearning for more? RbbrDutchRyder, our hot kinkster from the Netherlands, spills his pandemic-era desires. From rubber gear and public chastity to being kidnapped and used by a group of hot Doms, he craves the total loss of control. Discover why this sub finds ultimate satisfaction in serving others’ pleasure!
If we got fucked in 2020, it was mostly by Corona and endless lockdowns. Our asses and dicks haven’t seen much social action, but at least we can still get off on hot fetish pics! Usually, sex is something you do, not talk about, but times have changed. So, MasterMarc caught up with RbbrDutchRyder, a scorching kinkster from the Netherlands, to dish on his dirtiest experiences and wildest desires!
MasterMarc: Hi Ryder. How satisfying was 2020 if you compare your sexual activities of this year with 2019?
RbbrDutchRyder: Hi, unfortunately not great at all. Probably like most of us. The first 3 months were okay, and luckily closed with Darklands Antwerp as the closing party of 2020. But after that, it was just horrible.
MasterMarc: Yes, it seems that the closing party of Darklands was at the same time the funeral of our sexual life. But even if our sexual activities are limited right now, we can still remember the good experiences we’ve had in the past. For how long have you been into kink?
RbbrDutchRyder: I’ve been active in the kink scene for approximately 4 years now. Before that, I was already interested in tight-fitting outfits/kink for some time. I bought my first rubber suit second-hand 8 years ago now. I got to try it on, and the match was made! For me, it was hard to make the first step into the kink scene. I was, even more than I still am now, insecure. A friend of mine whom I hold very dear took me literally by the hand and took me to Fetish Pride Antwerp / Darklands. After that, my adventure really took off.
From Insecure Boy to Kinky Confidence
MasterMarc: As much as you’re showing yourself on Twitter, you don’t really give us the image of being insecure. Do you think that your kinky life has boosted your self-confidence?
RbbrDutchRyder: Yes, very much so. I’ve always been insecure about certain parts of myself. My looks are one of those. I was always second-guessing if something would look good, etc. Since I entered the kink scene and got a positive response on my looks and combinations, my self-confidence grew. Still, I often don’t see myself as “handsome” as some responses make me out to be. I do know that I’m no ugly guy, but wouldn’t call myself handsome either.
MasterMarc: I am quite sure that you realize you attract a lot of guys. So believe them if they say that you’re handsome. But we will talk about other qualities of yours now. How kinky are you, and what are your dirtiest fantasies?
RbbrDutchRyder: Thanks a lot, that means a lot to me. Regarding how kinky I am, for me, it is mostly in the bedroom/playroom/darkroom or at events. Sometimes I like to mix my kink life a little with my daily life, by wearing leather pants or wearing chastity underneath my clothes. Sometimes I do fantasize with mixing it up more, wearing rubber in public, but I’m not there yet. A big fantasy of mine is being kidnapped by some hot guys and put in the trunk of a car. Driven somewhere I don’t know, put in full gear and serving a group of kinky guys in any way they feel like.
Kidnapped & Used: The Ultimate Surrender
MasterMarc: Uhhhh, seems you love to deliver yourself and to get forced. Have you had some good experiences with it?
RbbrDutchRyder: I do have some experience with it; a really nice one was at a big house party (pre-corona). I believe there were around 75 guys at one point. So it started by one who took me to a room and started to blindfold me. After my eyesight was cut off, he put me on a bed. Ropes on all the corners were tying me down so I couldn’t get out. It started so sweet with a back massage, but quickly turned into something rougher. He put headphones on me so I could only hear music and he could play with me. Next, he sat in front of me and made me give him a blowjob. Apparently, during all this, a little group had formed around us (I wasn’t still aware of it). But suddenly, I didn’t feel only one set of hands, but multiple. They started playing with my body all over. Candle wax, plugs, vibrators, fucking – it all passed. Sometimes in between, they let me lie there for I don’t know how long, nothing happening, and then suddenly it all started again. In the end, I had been lying there for approximately 2-3 hours.
MasterMarc: That sounds like a good start. But just 2-3 hours? Wouldn’t you be up for something longer?
RbbrDutchRyder: Haha, well, we had much fun that party. Unfortunately for me, it was not a kink-only party. So it’s a little taking and giving, haha. That’s why my fantasies still stand. More extensively. Like something like I described, only at an event like Darklands! It gets me horny as fuck just thinking of it!
MasterMarc: For how long would you like to be kept in a secret place to be used just for others’ pleasure?
RbbrDutchRyder: Wouldn’t the correct answer be: “As long as my Master likes me to be”? But I do like to broaden my limits. So I couldn’t really say. Never been at that point that I thought: okay, this is enough.
MasterMarc: Yes, that is a correct answer. Good boy. What kind of sexual action are you into, and what are your limits?
RbbrDutchRyder: Well, it’s a pretty long list. Obviously, I LOVE rubber, but also other tight-fitting outfits. I love the way you can see everything of the body, but still, you can’t really see. That suspense and the feel of it what makes me horny as hell! Next to that, I like sportswear, socks, sneakers. Being dominated, as you could have guessed. I’m a Sub/Pup and more bottom. I like bondage/blindfolds and ass play. I get more into fisting every time, but that is still a work in progress. Besides all the things I already discovered, I’m always in for trying new stuff I don’t know.
Limits for me are scat, permanent marks, and blood. Also, severe pain is not really my thing. I do like a spanking or some CBT, but I can’t handle it for a very long time.
The Thrill of Surrender: Why Control Is Overrated
MasterMarc: Oh, I see a diverse list of interests. That’s always interesting, even more so if boys are also open to new things. Let us talk about your best experiences. Would you like to present us one?
RbbrDutchRyder: I think the best experience I had sexually is the one I just sketched before. Just the feeling of being used as a toy, for the pleasure of others. Which in itself pleasures you, including the feelings you get by being played with and fucked, is just something arousing I can’t really describe.
My best experience in the kink scene must be my first time at Darklands Antwerp. At that point, fetish was some scary world. With hot men in black rubber or leather. All very strong and “scary.” A dear friend of mine literally took my hand and took me into the kink world in Antwerp. It showed that kinksters are one of the most inclusive, sweetest, and warmhearted people I’ve ever met. And just as important, lots of fun to play with.
MasterMarc: What is the attraction of not knowing what will happen?
RbbrDutchRyder: I think it has to do with my personality in my “daily life.” In my “daily life,” I am very much in control. I plan a lot because I have a lot of interests, so to fit that in 24 hours or a week needs some managing. Therefore, it really arouses me if somebody can completely take that away. Because of my personality, I won’t be your easiest sub. But when you succeed in me fully submitting and not thinking “I would like this or that,” then you could do pretty much everything with me. I’ll get in a space that fully revolves around pleasing you and your needs or wishes.
MasterMarc: What exactly makes you not an easy sub?
RbbrDutchRyder: Even as a sub, well, at first, if you do it “right,” I would still try to control the situation. I’m still learning not to give in to those thoughts of: This would be very horny or try that, and just shut up, haha. So I think as a Dom, you have to work maybe a little harder to get me to fully submit. But when I do… You can have your wildest fantasies come true, haha.
MasterMarc: Seems it is a question of trust, and that I understand totally. Trust is the base of good SM. You’ve told us that you love to be used by many at events, but I’m quite sure that you love to have a Master in such situations who will take care of you. What else is important in such a situation?
RbbrDutchRyder: Yes, you are completely right. Trust is the base of any play. Another thing which is important for me is the ambiance. I love a relaxed or horny ambiance, which arouses me and puts me at ease. Which will make it easier for me to submit to the other stimulations.
MasterMarc: But if a relaxed ambiance is so important, then you really have to tell us why the kidnapping scenario is such a turn-on for you, a scenario in which you would be more stressed than relaxed?
RbbrDutchRyder: It will probably be harder for me, yes. But I really like the idea of full-blown no choices and just being told what you have to do. Or being used for the pleasure of others and the real total loss of all control of the situation.
MasterMarc: Is that just a sexual desire, or would you love to be in such a situation a slave in all aspects?
RbbrDutchRyder: It’s more a sexual desire. I don’t get aroused by the thought of me having to do dishes or to polish the boots of a Master. For me, that doesn’t add any value to the play.
MasterMarc: How important is your sexual satisfaction for you? Do you think it is important for subs to cum?
RbbrDutchRyder: My sexual satisfaction is pretty important to me. But I believe it is not necessarily related to me as a sub cumming. If my Master allows it, that’s a big welcome. Though the journey and play together is satisfying enough. Sometimes, not coming, only keeps you more and more aroused.
MasterMarc: Last but not least, I have to ask you how important it is for you that the Master and also other tops are satisfied, and why do you think that you are a good boy, who is really able to satisfy real men?
RbbrDutchRyder: It is important to satisfy the Master or Top because that means you get more out of the experience. And often it means you will play again, which builds trust. Thanks to that trust, you can broaden your boundaries and try new, even more exciting things. As a sub, I always try to accomplish the pleasure of my Master or Top, and I won’t settle for “it was okay.” As a sub, I want to be remembered, and be able to build the experience out even more.
What do you think, Kinkfinity fam? Does RbbrDutchRyder’s blend of control and surrender resonate with your own desires? Let us know in the comments!
