Rope is his main kink, but once he slips into pup or sub headspace, all the stress of a high-pressure job simply washes away. Pup Arlo (born 1994, West Midlands, UK) talks about his first steps with his handler, being nervous about impact play, why he loves topping with rope, and his wish to be used and shared at Folsom.
Hello Readers, I sniffed out another pup to talk with today. Arlo, please tell us a little about you. How did you first find out that there is more than just vanilla out there, and that this interests you?
Arf!!! Hi there, so I was into kink for about four years and then seriously got into it when I first met my handler a year ago. He got me into bondage (rope) and then slowly introduced me into impact play, D/s and rubber. And I haven’t stopped since then! I’m constantly exploring different kinks and I’m always up for trying something new.
Hehe bondage is always a good entry, as it’s not seen as very hard. How was impact play for you when you first tried it? Were you nervous?
Extremely nervous although it was an interest of mine to begin with. I always feel that as long as you have confidence in your Dom and you have spoken about limits before, you’re gonna be in safe hands!
That’s very true. Communication is key with such things. But still, what was it that interested you into that before? And what made you like it after?
I feel that the sense of being helpless and submitting myself to my Dom was the first thing that got me into the kink. I also find it gives a massive stress relief once I’ve hit that sub headspace. Once I’m in that headspace all the stresses I’ve bottled up over the past days just wash away!
That effect is always exhilarating, right? Speaking of headspaces. You’re also a pup. Did that come early into the kink introduction as well?
Indeed! I got into pup play more for de-stressing from the responsibility in my day-to-day job! Working in a high-pressure environment, it’s good to have a stress relief that doesn’t affect your body in a negative way. When you’re an omega / beta pup it’s very similar to a sub headspace (if not the same). I started getting into it as a de-stresser and then found the sexual part of it exhilarating!
Do you have something that you see as your main kink, or do you kinda go through phases/ go as situations arise?
I think rope bondage is my main kink so I see that as the main thing. I love topping with rope because I find the artistry of it is amazing.
As for other attractions, when I bottom it’s the restraint and the control over me which I love. When I top, it’s having someone’s trust in my hands and being in control of them.
Do you have any dreams / fantasies /skills that you’d love to experience or acquire once?
Currently I want to be used, abused and shared around at Folsom or a Recon event. I just need to get myself to an event or find enough guys to help me out !
