He’s a hot young bottom from London, navigating a thrilling polyamorous life with a devoted boyfriend and a demanding Master. Corium101 reveals how moving away from home ignited his deepest kinks, how he balances multiple intense connections, and why his unwavering submission fuels his entire existence. Get ready for a raw, honest look into his complex, captivating world.
My Kinky Roots: From Vanilla to Velocity
MasterMarc: Hi Nicky, I have to say I really love your illustrations. You have the talent to get with your sketches to the heart of several kinks. It seems that you know exactly about the feelings the boys on your pictures are enjoying or suffering… or is that the same? Let us talk about your needs and desires. What are you into?
Corium101: Hey! To be honest, I’ve never really been vanilla! Since I first started having sex, I’ve never found vanilla play intense enough to enjoy. I always seek some sort of power dynamic, and that has been key to my relationships since then. I first experimented with bondage, and then branched out into buying leather gear, and later rubber. It wasn’t until I moved to London that I started exploring the fetish scene and socializing with other kinksters. But also, exploring different types of relationship and polyamory. It’s been brilliant fun, and I love developing and exploring. Since moving to London, I’ve begun to socialize on the leather scene, which I do with my Master (KinkyGuyKent) and I often go out in gear with my boyfriend (AndyRed) in gear on the London or Birmingham scenes. This has improved my confidence and kinkiness massively!
My Kinky Evolution: Beyond Monogamy
MasterMarc: It’s often when guys break free from home that their kinks truly ignite. And I’m sure your desires and needs blossomed during your time living away. Tell us, what were your initial urges, and how have they deliciously developed?
Corium101: Absolutely. Having my own space in my flat, and the confidence to meet new kinksters regularly helped me developed a lot when I moved to London. I can meet who I want, and do what I want to without fear, which is excellent. Also, I can be far less secretive about my kinks, and express myself as I wish. I often go to Fetish events in full gear, and strut through London shamelessly, without running into family members. But by far my biggest development since moving to London is my change in view of relationships. I no longer feel compelled to adhere to heteronormative relationship templates… hence my boyfriend and my Master. It’s all rather fun.
MasterMarc: Hehe, I know exactly what you mean. By the way, who came first into your life—your boyfriend or your Master?
Corium101: Been with my boyfriend 5 months, and my Master 2 months.
MasterMarc: So both relationships are relatively fresh! In dog years, that’s a lifetime, and in gay years, even more. How are you navigating this dynamic, managing to give both the attention they crave?
Corium101: It works fairly well at the moment. Both my Master and my boyfriend don’t live in London, so Andy and I will visit each other at the weekends. Or I’ll pop down to Canterbury to visit Sir and his husband. My Master and I also have a “regular” weekend together, the first in every month, where we go to the Leather Social together as a Master/Boi couple. It’s working very well at the moment, it’s very easy to split the time. However, work can often interfere (I’m a freelance musician and performer in my other life), and both Andy and Sir have high intensity jobs.
MasterMarc: You’re forced to share your time, but they have to share you. Has that never sparked a fiery problem?
Corium101: Well… it has its moments! Both Andy and Sir are very possessive. So when they’ve got me, neither of them want to let go 😉. Which can be very fun, but also a bit tense sometimes. Splitting time between my Master and my Boyfriend can be tricky. The collar (which I wear full time) has been something for us all to get used to. But ultimately we all love it…! We’re planning a BBQ together in August, with Sir, Andy, Sir’s Husband and another of Sir’s subs. Wonder who’ll be serving the drinks….
My Submissive Soul: A Deep, Insatiable Need
MasterMarc: How vital is your submissive side to your very core? Is it merely a sexual craving, or does it plunge deeper? Describe your profound needs.
Corium101: Submitting is something I’ve grown to need an awful lot recently. Which is why my Master and I are such a good match. It’s more than just sexual, with my Master. I recently spent a week as his houseboi, which involved a lot of domestic service, as well as sexual. We have protocols for what I do in the morning, when he returns home from work, and before bed. It’s great fun.
I guess I need to feel like I’m satisfying my Master whenever I can. That could be taking a flogging, or serving him a fresh glass of wine as he arrives home from work.
MasterMarc: Are you also submissive in your relationship with your boyfriend? Do you yield to his desires in the same way?
Corium101: I tend to sub in the bedroom for him, if I bottom. But usually I top him, and sometimes I can be quite Dom. We play in gear a lot, but we don’t have defined roles as either top/bottom or sub/Dom. Which is fun. We can go where the mood takes us!
MasterMarc: That sounds magnificent. Do you find yourself aching for that raw dominance when you’re not with your Master?
Corium101: I miss the headspace. But I also need to be out of the headspace in order to work and socialise with my non-kinky friends. So I can only sustain intense kink headspace for a few days, before having to return to the more vanilla world. Hopefully one day we’ll find a balance between the two, which is a bit more even. Plus, our regular friends are fully aware of the nature of our relationship yet… so we’ve got to be a little more vanilla for them. But sometimes I’m just desperate to be pinned down by my throat, and have my ass destroyed.
MasterMarc: Hehe. You truly seem to be a born pussyboy. But on the other side, I have to ask: do you ever miss the tender, romantic feelings you share with your boyfriend when you’re immersed in time with your Master?
Corium101: Absolutely not, my Master is incredibly loving and romantic too. There’s plenty of candlelit dinners, chilling out in the bath and socialising with friends with my Master or my boyfriend. They’re similar in that respect. It’s just, when I’m with my Master, I am always fully submitted to him. But we are incredibly special kinksters. And in order to create a truly REAL sub/Dom dynamic, it has to be just as intense outside of the bedroom as inside. Otherwise it’s just roleplay, right?
Slave in Life: My Ultimate Fantasy
MasterMarc: You’re absolutely right. But that reveals something deeper: you’re open to more, eager to push further. Could you imagine taking the ultimate plunge—becoming a slave in life?
Corium101: I would love to. But I’m not sure it would work practically. We’d need a big house with room for a lot of guys… but hey…. stranger things have happened. It’s certainly a fantasy my Master and I would love to live out. But for the moment, it’s just a fantasy.
MasterMarc: You never know what the future holds. Fantasies can blossom into goals, and goals can shatter into raw reality.
Corium101: Absolutely. Check back with us in a year’s time, and hopefully we’ll be a lot closer to making that a reality.
The Boyfriend’s Perspective: Sharing the Boy
MasterMarc: Now, it’s time to turn to Andy, Corium101’s boyfriend. Andy, how does it feel to frequently share your boyfriend with someone you know he has a romantic connection with, even if it’s a different kind of love?
AndyRed1992: It’s been quite the emotional rollercoaster over the last couple of months, but things have progressed and are settling down with time. Coming into my relationship with Greg, I considered myself to be monogamous but polysexual – I.e. being romantically in love with my boyfriend, but being able to form sexual relationships with others at the same time. So when Greg and his Dom first started chatting and meeting up, I viewed things as being just sexual, with a level of friendship involved which was nothing out of the ordinary.
When it was clear that deeper feelings were developing on both sides that challenged my views on relationships and emotions. Would it make me view my relationship with Greg any differently, or would I feel threatened by someone else having romantic feelings for him too? In all honesty, at first I did feel threatened by their relationship, but I think that can be attributed to a couple of fears and insecurities of my own, but those feelings have ebbed away over time. In an open relationship there needs to be a level of selflessness where you put your partner’s desires above your own to begin with, as long as its not to your own detriment. So in this case it was clear to me that Greg’s Dom made him happy and cared about him. Whilst that might have made me uncomfortable at first, since getting to know him better (he’s an awesome guy) and observing how they interact in reality rather than at a distance, I’ve become far more comfortable with their relationship. I didn’t expect it to happen but a result of their relationship with each other has brought Greg and I closer – which is priceless.
MasterMarc: Is the world of BDSM still new to you, Andy? Do you ever feel a pang of inadequacy, a fear that you can’t fully satisfy your boyfriend’s deeper needs?
AndyRed1992: No not at all! When you’re in an open relationship you play with others because they can give you different experiences. For example, you may want to top or bottom with a particular kind of guy etc, and I don’t see this as being any different. I can satisfy the vast majority of Greg’s needs, and for the desires he has that I can’t fulfil there’s his Dom or other guys for that. I think that if you expect one person to be able to fulfil all your needs and desires all the time, you’re limiting the breadth of your sexual experience. We’ve all got our strengths so why not share that and learn from what we all have to offer each other.
The Master’s View: Sharing the Property
MasterMarc: Now, it’s time to interrogate Corium’s Master. KinkyGuyKent, what’s the raw difference between owning a boy you know is exclusively yours, and owning a boy who has a boyfriend—a relationship you surely don’t wish to shatter?
KinkyGuyKent: I don’t think there is a huge difference actually. I own Corium just as fully as if he didn’t have a boyfriend. All it means is that Andy and I communicate really openly and clearly at every stage to make sure that we are both comfortable.
MasterMarc: Are there any constraints you impose upon yourself because of Andy, or any unspoken rules you follow given the delicate situation?
KinkyGuyKent: Hmmm that’s a tricky one. I try to make a point of not being restricted – that would ruin the sub/Dom headspace, and I’ve been in that situation before. I guess because Andy is such a kinkster it’s not really an issue! And where there have been issues in the past we have learnt from them. Ultimately I think that he understands that Corium wants and needs My domination and so doesn’t get in the way of that. But I’m very conscious to keep in touch with him and communicate openly so that there are no surprises.
The Kinky Web: Six People, One Group
MasterMarc: I know your dynamic is far more intricate than a simple love triangle. Can you unravel the exact constellation you’re entwined in, and how do you navigate its complex, thrilling depths?
KinkyGuyKent: Haha, hold on to your hat! I am Master and Owner to Corium101, who has a boyfriend, and to @KilburnKinkster, who’s in a civil partnership. I am also married to EntenteKinkiale. So there are 6 people implicated, although only 5 who are active members of our group.
In terms of how we handle it, it’s all about open and honest communication – we have a WhatsApp group that is very active! (EntenteKinkiale often complains about the 100+ notifications he gets!) We also communicate directly with one-another rather than talking about what someone has said behind their back. It’s all about total honesty and transparency, which in turn leads to trust.
MasterMarc: Yes, that’s true, even with just two. Today, the power isn’t solely mine to end this interview. Sometimes, even slaves have the right to deliver the final words.
Corium101: I guess what the whole situation boils down to is trust. The reason our arrangement works so well is that we all trust each-other inherently. And that brings us such freedom to do what feels right for ourselves. I’d advise anyone who wants to pursue a similar arrangement to spend time on the groundwork. Any relationship (but especially those with a power dynamic) require so much work out of the bedroom to succeed. It’s not all whips and chains – although they are very fun. It’s all down to a connection between two people. And that transcends all the Recon tribes and Grindr filters.
Corium101, Andy, and KinkyGuyKent have ripped open their complex, captivating world of polyamory, submission, and ownership. Their raw honesty about balancing multiple desires and forging deep trust is truly inspiring.
What aspects of their unique dynamic, their communication strategies, or their open-minded approach to relationships resonated most with you? Does their journey spark your own curiosities about consent, trust, or unconventional love? Share your comments below!
