He's the "King of the Fuck Parties," and he knows what makes a fetish event work. We chat with legendary DJ Jack Chang about his rules for a perfect night: a strict dress code for total escapism and a deep, masculine, non-commercial soundtrack. His advice for other DJs? "I don’t want a woman in my head while I have a man in my ass."
A really personal interview with Mickey Taylor, porn star, singer and neo-author about his new book and himself.
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Can fisting wreck your hole? Only if you play it wrong. Fisting maestro Skydevil drops the ultimate wisdom for all tops: THERE IS NOTHING MORE DOMINANT THAN THE BOTTOM'S ASS. The key is to play with the booty, not against it. It's a game of trust, relaxation, and sensual pleasure—not a battle you’re supposed to win.
Want to be a good fister? The secret isn't a big hand; it's big patience. Guest tutor Skydevil shares the golden rule: "Always play with the booty, not against it." If the hole pushes back, you yield. It's a slow, lubricated dance of trust where the goal isn't just getting in, but fulfilling your partner's deepest desires.
"This time when I'm tied down... I have control." For switch Alex, kink was the answer to reclaiming his body after a traumatic rape. In this raw and powerful interview, he talks about the healing power of consensual control, the thrill of deep submission with a trusted Dom, and why he loves both topping and bottoming.
Psychology Professor Hermes Solenzol explains that healthy BDSM hinges on Safe, Sane, and Consensual (SSC) practices like negotiation, limits, and safewords. He warns against abusers who undermine these, exploiting BDSM for control through dishonesty, isolation, and manipulation. His advice: educate yourself, engage with the community, and prioritize consent to avoid harmful dynamics.
Let's reclaim "sadist"! Psychology Professor Hermes Solenzol explains that in BDSM, it's not about cruelty, but erotic pain—a specific, warming sensation in zones like the butt or thighs. Pain also serves in power exchange and to induce altered states like sub-space, fostering self-discovery beyond pseudoscientific myths.
Psychology Professor Hermes Solenzol offers a fresh take on D/s, linking it to shame and pride, core evolutionary emotions. He argues D/s provides an escape from society's relentless pursuit of success. Submissives find liberation by embracing low status, while Dominants gain power effortlessly, fostering a unique, profound release from internalized pressures and enhancing pleasure.