Daddy Vibes not Daddy Issues

Overall, I have to say: For me, age isn’t the most important thing. What’s much more crucial is the connection you feel. And depending on the situation, you’re looking for something different in the other person. I’m enjoying the freedom here to simply choose whatever I’m in the mood for, or wherever my horniness leads me! The internet makes it easy to scroll through the “menu” of gays and fuck your way up and down, and whatever else is going on. 😉 Still, as a spankee and kinkster, I keep noticing: older daddy types often just have that certain appeal that totally speaks to me. But why is that? That’s the question I asked myself.

First off: We can totally ditch the classic “Daddy Issues” cliché right away. No, I’ve always had a great male role model in my life. My dad isn’t dead, and he didn’t bail – he’s a super cool guy! So we can cross that argument off the list right away.

Sure, in Chinese society, it’s tradition to deeply respect older people. But I didn’t grow up in some backwoods village where the clan dictates every step and the village elder has the final say, haha! No, I come from a rather conservative family – especially compared to here in Europe – but we’re a modern family, and that’s in a seriously big city. For you guys here, it’s probably a mega-metropolis with over 10 million inhabitants, in MODERN China. So it’s not just age itself that attracts me so much.

But when I think about how I grew up – in society, in my family, but also, for example, in boarding school and sports clubs – there’s a clear commonality: We learn to respect authority and sometimes let ourselves be led. And that’s exactly the point that has deeply rooted itself in me. The small freedoms we fight for, we then enjoy all the more when we stick to rules set by someone we respect. Oh yeah, and every now and then, you’re just a little brat. 🙂 It’s like a game where you know the rules and then have even more fun mastering them or sometimes creatively bending them. 😉

Why the “Bad” Daddy’s Paddle Hits Better

You know, sometimes I like to spank an ass myself, but clearly, I have more experience as a spankee. And for me, it feels more natural if my “bad” spanker is older. It’s more consistent and just feels right. I don’t know if you can relate, it’s sometimes really hard to describe this feeling.

With someone my age, I might rather ask myself: “What’s he even doing here? What’s he allowing himself to do?” With an older person, you’re somehow different about it, the acceptance is different. Sometimes it’s just like that: You shut up and swallow it. That has nothing to do with a lack of self-worth, but with a certain kind of energy that just fits. It’s somehow more authentic and less role play, even though that can be fun sometimes too.

But I also have to say: It’s not just about age. I also have to see authority in him, someone who is further along in life than I am. Someone from whom I feel like I could still learn something, intellectually or about life itself. So I have to see him as a kind of mentor or leader – and that’s definitely not true for everyone who “was lucky enough” to be born before 2006. 😉

Especially with spanking, even if you enjoy the feeling on your ass, the warmth, and the different kinds of pain, it’s still about chastisement. And for that, there needs to be a reason; it shouldn’t be pointless beating. Precisely for that, you have to respect the other person. You don’t let just anyone walk all over you.

But just as important is that the other person respects me. I couldn’t surrender to anyone if I didn’t feel that they were responsive to me and that there was a real connection. And yes, that connection isn’t just created by good looks or hot sex. Especially when I’m so exposed, I need that feeling of security – I have to feel that the other person isn’t a crazy lunatic and knows exactly what they’re doing and what we’re doing. That’s the be-all and end-all!

But it’s not just about him demanding; he also has to be able to hit the brakes and protect. I know myself: Some would say it’s because of my age that I sometimes dive headfirst into things. Even though I’m actually a calm and thoughtful guy, I’m also someone who thinks: “It’ll work out somehow!” And sometimes it’s gold when the person in the lead also says: “Stop, Mark, take a breath, check the situation.” The other person’s experience gives me, as a sub, a huge sense of security.

What I also like about older guys: They often just know what they want. There’s less drama, like you might have among peers. What others think is often much less important to them – I’ve noticed that, and it’s totally liberating! And last but not least: When it really gets into the kink area, older people who are well-established in life are often more able to afford the cool toys and tools. 😉 Europe is “holy shit expensive” after all!

So, now I’ve totally dumped a bunch of my thoughts on you about this simple question: “Why are you into guys like me?” But hey, it’s important for me to share this honestly with you. And as a reward, I’ll show you again how I was punished – of course, by an older guy who probably wouldn’t be everyone’s type. But I thought it was hot, even if he sometimes should have been a little more responsive to me.

Big Daddy Spanking – A 20-Minute Spanking in Every Position

Alright, let me give you a quick rundown of what you’re about to see in this video. We’re kicking things off with me over the knee, getting my ass worked over by hand, with a ice hockey stick, and a brush. Then, it’s time to bend over for a session with the riding crop, the cane, and a carpet beater. After that, I’m on my back for a little quality time with a belt.

Next up is the wheelbarrow position, where the brush makes a comeback, and to finish it all off, I’m lying down again to really feel the sting of the crop and the cane one more time. It was seriously intense! Hope you enjoy the show. 😉

So, that was an insight into my preferences regarding guys and the reasons behind them! What do you think about it? Have you had similar experiences, or are you attracted to something completely different? Share your stories and thoughts in the comments! I’m super excited to hear from you and exchange ideas. Let’s rock this journey together! ✨