Chastity gives an immense boost to my productivity

Are you a sub/slave/faggot or how would you describe yourself?

I would describe myself as a switch. I’m not a complete sub nor a full-fledged dom. I have some subservient leanings, for example I love being in chastity but also derive immense pleasure from putting others in chastity. Being a dom to others gives me huge pleasure. This pleasure is then amplified by being in chastity myself. Tying someone up, seeing their cock straining against a chastity belt while my own cock strains against its own enclosure is one of the biggest turn-ons for me.

It is just a reminder to myself that my mind is strong and that I am in complete control of my mind and body.

What’s your motivation for being in chastity?

I know myself well enough to have realised by now that I’m easily prone to addiction. For example, I cannot just drink one beer: once started, I have to drink them all. For that reason I do not drink alcohol, and the same goes for cigarettes. Chastity for me is a physical reminder of the restrictions I can place on myself and the discipline I’m able to muster to control urges that quite frankly frighten me. Don’t get me wrong, though: I’m not addicted to sex. It is just a reminder to myself that my mind is strong and that I am in complete control of my mind and body.

How long have you been into chastity?

My first memory of chastity was seeing a CB6000 in a “Bound Men” video online around the age of 16. This contraption seemed quite alien and exciting to me, and it started an extensive Google search for this concept I did not even know the name of. Diving into this Google rabbit hole, I found a chastity-related Tumblr, and this was the start of my exploration into the wondrous world of kinky Tumblrs. After just fantasising about chastity for 2 more years I finally reached the legal age of 18, enabling me to dive in for real and buy my first cage. With the power of hindsight I now realise that chastity has much more deeper roots for me. I remember at a very young age being excited about wearing a sports protection cup. The weight of the cup in my pants and the restrictions it imposed always were exciting to me even though I had no idea about the proverbial bird and the bees, let alone about BDSM and kink.

What device do you wear?

I started off by buying a clear Holy Trainer V2 on my 18th birthday. After a year of getting used to being in chastity, starting with wearing it for a few nervous hours, working my way up to going out in public wearing the cage and graduating to wearing it for extended periods of time, I bought a steel cage. The idea of the cold steel and the heavier weight was very appealing to me. I soon learned how hellishly uncomfortable a cheap steel cage can be. This steel cage opened my eyes to all the negative points I had read about online but never experienced myself, like pinched skin and chafing. These horrible experiences led me to become an even greater fan of the Holy Trainer’s superior comfort. Finding my regular Holy Trainer on the large side, however, I bought myself a white Holy Trainer V2 in the shorter size. It is my favourite cage to this day.

Are you locked 24/7?

I’m not locked 24/7/365, but I am locked up for extended periods of time, with my current record being 40 days.

Do you have a keyholder?

I do not have a keyholder. However, I do not completely trust myself with the keys either. I lock away my keys in a padlocked box. I do not know the code of the padlock but entrust it to the ChastiKey app. Thanks to this amazing app I’m able to recreate an online keyholder. I do not know how long I’ll be locked and can play games which might increase or shorten my locked time, all within my predefined limits. This app, in combination with its own Discord chat room where you can easily and freely talk to like-minded people, is the best keyholder for me. This chat room is an amazing place to me: they are really supportive in difficult moments, but they do not hesitate to tease you as well.

What’s the longest you’ve gone locked?

My personal record stands at 40 days. This was last Locktober (2018), combined with an extra game in the ChastiKey app.

Don’t you miss masturbating/cumming while locked up?

The first few weeks I do, but hey, isn’t that part of the fun? After a while I just forget about it and focus on all the other ways I can still enjoy myself and others ;D

How often are you allowed to cum?

When I do a regular ChastiKey game, which usually lasts between ten and twenty days depending on my luck with the cards, I do not allow myself to cum during the game. When I do longer challenges like Locktober, I have a milking release using Lord Chirenon’s tapping method every two weeks. Sometimes during longer lockups I have a wet dream; the body will always find a way. I do not mind these, I find them quite exciting.

What were some of the problems you’ve had with chastity devices and how did you solve them?

Personally, I have not had many problems thanks to the comfort of the Holy Trainer. The issues I had with the horrible steel cage (pinching, chafing …) I easily solved by not using that particular cage anymore. On the hygiene front I have quite an easy time as well. My body does not produce a lot of precum, which means I rarely leak when wearing the cage, making everything less sticky and gross. I unlock myself once a week to do a big cleaning of myself and the cage. The rest of the week everything is kept locked and is cleaned in the shower or bath.

What are some of the positive effects of chastity you’ve noticed?

I find chastity gives an immense boost to my productivity, both in my job and in my personal life. Not having to focus on my own selfish needs, I have more room in my day and in my mind to focus on important projects for work and to keep my life organised. Being able to have spend more of my free time on work projects have given an incredible boost to my career, allowing me to make promotion several times in my short career due to impressing the recruiter with a lot of extra knowledge gathered by reading and studying instead of jerking off.