He likes guys who push his limits instead of worrying about how small he is. ChrisG_X24 (born 1998, Connecticut, U.S.) talks about his first week as a collared sub and pup, getting into fisting, how he builds trust before a first meeting, and why he loves helping doms explore their kinks more than his own.
How long have you already been living out your kinky side and how did you come to that?
I’ve been living my kinky side for around 2 years so far. I always dreamed and fantasised about lots of kinks, from pup play to fisting to many other things, growing up, but as soon as I turned 18 I went ahead and began searching for people to explore it with. Surprise: in a few days I found someone in NY, was put in a collar and turned into his sub/pup for the week. Fisting I started a bit later, a few months after I turned 19, which honestly was more because I had too much free time to myself and soon my toys weren’t enough.
When I’m a pup for someone I like to take orders, fool around but also receive some punishment and pain
What’s especially important for you there?
Something important is lots of trust and communication but also lots of fun and pushing limits. When I’m a pup for someone I like to take orders, fool around but also receive some punishment and pain. For the most part, though, it’s the reminder of what something felt like and what happened after that I always end up loving. It could be someone fisting me and pushing past my limits, or getting spanked hard and then cuddling and talking afterwards that I love and that draws me in.
Do you have special sexual and fetish preferences?
For the most part, I like people pushing my limits. Lots of times I’ve run into guys, and still do, who look at me and see how small I am and are worried about going too hard or being too aggressive with me, and it kind of kills some of the fun. So when I meet someone, I prefer them pushing me hard or getting aggressive, making me remember who I was with and what they did.
What kind of guys do you like?
I don’t have much of a preference other than being open to kinks or having things they would like to explore with me. Because of my nature, though, I take lots of time until I finally say yes to meeting someone, due to past trust issues and stuff, especially if they’re expecting me to sub to them or they wanna fist me open. I want to make sure they understand my limits before any meeting.
So tell me, how do you make sure you can trust a guy so that you are ready to deliver yourself to him?
It usually takes talking for a few days in a less kinky manner, so I can get a sense of what they like to do and what they are like on a normal day-to-day basis. When I feel ready for a first meet, I usually prefer a normal, more public setting to talk in person for a bit and get a feel for them. Then I begin to open up my more sub and pup side to them as I build that relationship.
What was your hottest experience until now?
So far my hottest experience was meeting a guy and being blindfolded while he guided me to the toys he had out in his room and made me ride each of them while he fed me poppers and used my throat. There was very little talking, just me riding toys and having my throat fucked at his order. It was something simple, but it was also the first time playing with large toys and exploring poppers as well.
Are there things/dreams you want to experience once?
This is hard to say ’cause there’s lots I want to experience. But for the most part I want to explore other guys’ kinks more than mine. I like finding dom guys who have things they want to try and do to a sub and volunteering myself to help them explore it.
What is the attraction to be used by others to live THEIR kinks so that they get THEIR satisfaction?
It’s more the curiosity about what people are turned on by and the need to help them explore it that I enjoy. There’s something about meeting people who are into so many different things and helping them explore it and get them off that I love, while also discovering kinks that I might start liking myself.
