Flix, a pup from the UK, tells how he found his way from impact play to pup play. He talks about trust, his love of fisting and his interest in electro play, the guys he likes and the experiences he would still like to try.
Fisting is an incredible feeling, and a very intimate practice, that makes me feel amazing!
sadOsam: How long have you already been living out your kinky side and how did you came to that?
Flix: I’ve been living my kink life for about 9years. It started with my boyfriend at the time who had an interest in impact play and spanking. From there i branched into S&M, getting more and more into my slave role. He introduced me to a lot, kindling my love for anal play as well as opening my mind to my other kinks. I got more into submissive roles and finally found pup play. I’ve loved my journey into my pup side, I remember trying my first tail and loving wagging it! Such a great feeling. From there I’ve broadened my horizons to a point that I am very open with my kink life and where I want to go with it.
sadOsam: Whats especially important for you there?
Flix: The trust factor. A lot of the scenarios and play I involve myself in require me to give a lot of control over to the Dominant or Top. In order for this to work and for me to find the headspace I require I need to feel comfortable with a Dom/Top, knowing that while they dictate the session I am not at risk.
sadOsam: Do you have special sexual and fetish preferences?
Flix: In my sexual life I generally prefer to be a bottom. I’m not too confident topping so I find it hard to get myself into the mindset. I have been working on it with a few friends so watch this space.
As for fetishes, probably my main fetish would be fisting. It’s an incredible feeling, and a very intimate practice, that makes me feel amazing, both as a top and a bottom. Although it can be a struggle, I have fairly large hands and not many bottoms I have played with can take the whole hand.
Apart from fisting I have recently found that I really enjoy CBT and electro play. A local playmate where I live has introduced me to it and its made me really want to get a kit for myself.
sadOsam: What kind of guys do you like?
Flix: This is a toughie, I tend not to have a type. About the only thing I can go on is that I prefer darker haired guys to lighter haired, thats about all.
sadOsam: What was your hottest experience until now?
Flix: Again this is another tough one. It’s a toss up between two or three experiences. My first choice would be getting fisted at the Full Fetish party in 2017. It was the first time I had been fisted, and in the middle of a sex club. It was amazing, I felt so sleazy and sexy. It’s probably the reason why I’m hooked on it.
The second would be my first anal orgasm. A very talented top at the time helped me with it, spent an evening building me up and making me sweat for it. When I eventually came I didn’t even realise what was happening, I pretty much saw stars and was constantly sending streams of cum out.
My third, sorry to say, would be again a fisting scene. Getting fisted over a bench at a sex club. My body pressed against the wall, red light shining down, and a vocal audience, ticked so many boxes for me.
sadOsam: Are there things/dreams you want to experience once?
Flix: There’s a lot still out there for me to explore. I want to delve into my CBT and electro play a lot more, as well as trying out breathplay and restraint scenes. I’m eager to try a lot more exhibitionism as I found having an audience such a turn on. But who knows? I’m pretty sure there’s a lot out there I don’t know about that I’ll be glad to try when I discover it. I’ll keep you guys posted.
